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ArtReach and Excelsior Host Art Show
By Vicki Sicard, Recreation Coordinator
Over the past several years,
Excelsior's recreation department has partnered with ArtReach's
Arts Benefiting Kids Program. Excelsior's relationship with ArtReach
stemmed from a shared set of beliefs, and over time has developed
into a long-standing and successful partnership.
Over the course of the past three months, girls from across the
campus had the opportunity to work with an amazing professional
teaching artist, Laura. From the very beginning, Laura was a natural
fit for the girls and staff at Excelsior. Her workshops created
a fun, inspiring and stimulating experience. These workshops also
encouraged confidence, team building and individual success for
the girls. Through art, the girls had the opportunity to discover
and develop personal talents that will last them a lifetime.
On May 20, the girls showcased their talents and hosted an art show
entitled "Time Passes People Change." The paintings were
displayed on black velvet backdrops with the artists in attendance
to talk about their work and greet guests who were delighted with
the girls' hard work and talent. The varied techniques, creativity
and emotions displayed in the artwork were moving and inspiring.
In addition to the impressive artwork, Excelsior's Culinary Arts
classes catered the event. Resplendent in their white chef hats
and coats, the culinary students served delicious desserts including:
brownies, cream puffs,strawberries dipped
in chocolate, cheesecake and more.
To complete the evening, Excelsior music student
Lauren played the keyboard. She has been taking lessons through
Excelsior's music department. Thank you to ArtReach and our many
talented young ladies.
Excelsior's Canine
Healers Program
Funding for Excelsiors Canine
Healers therapy program comes from the generosity of the List Family
Foundation.
By Amy Couchman
If you've visited our campus in recent months, you may have noticed
dogs walking our halls. A little more than a year ago, Excelsior
began a new therapy program, Canine Healers. After watching the
incredible success of our other dog program, Paws4Trust, it was
our hope and intent to extend Animal Assisted Therapy to more of
the girls at Excelsior. Canine Healers is a trauma therapy group
facilitated by Amy Couchman, an Excelsior therapist. However, what
makes the therapy group unique is the participation of volunteer
dog handlers and their beloved furry friends. Each of the dogs is
an Animal Assisted-Therapy dog, certified to participate in therapy
settings.
Canine Healers meets on Tuesday evenings for one-hour meetings.
Eight to 10 Excelsior girls are recommended by their therapy team
to participate in the 10-week session. These meetings are designed
to help the girls gain a better understanding of trauma including:
sexual abuse, physical abuse and/or mental abuse, abandonment and
self-harm. With these issues in mind the group and therapist focus
on helping girls explore their trauma, develop healthy coping skills
for healing and begin establishing the building blocks for healthy
relationships. The dogs present in the group are there to provide
comfort and support while using their stories as reference for the
topics of trauma, abuse, trust and companionship.
The dogs love petting and attention, and in return provide unconditional
love to our girls. Canine Healers are proud to be at Excelsior.
If you get the chance, take some time to get to know them and their
amazing dogs.
The Exceptionally Defiant Teenager
By Michelle Cleckler, Psy.D.
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Most teens have periods of defiance, resistance,
arguing and refusing to accept responsibility for their actions.
In severe cases, a teen may be diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant
Disorder (ODD). This diagnosis is characterized by defiant behavior
that is persistent across environments lasting at least six months.
Such behavior includes losing one's temper often, arguing with adults,
refusing to comply with rules or directives, and blaming others
for their mistakes or misbehaviors.
As a psychologist, when I see that a client has
been diagnosed with this disorder, what it tells me is that she
will be difficult at times and may engage in power struggles. That
is, if she does not want to do something she will be defiant. The
key to treating these adolescents is to try to create an environment
with the fewest number of power struggles possible.
A model I use when treating this population is called
Collaborative Problem Solving by Ross Greene, PhD. Dr. Greene advises
teachers, therapists, and parents to put behaviors into three different
baskets: Basket A (safety concerns - non-negotiable), Basket B (things
that can be negotiated - both parents/staff and adolescents have
opinions about these things), and Basket C (adolescent chooses -
adults do not care about this stuff (i.e. what color socks she wears,
etc.). First, parents and staff members working with these adolescents
should try to put as many things into Basket C as possible. Parents/staff
need to try to let go of as many meaningless things as possible
so that the adolescent feels empowered to make her own decisions.
Basket A includes safety concerns and the adolescent needs to understand
what is in this basket (i.e. physical aggression) and the consequences
for this behavior. Staff and parents should be consistent with these
consequences. The rest of the every day problems will fall into
Basket B. This is where the work comes in. When problems come up
that need to be addressed, the parent/staff should first use empathy
and respect when discussing the problem. Then he/she should work
with the adolescent to come up with a solution. It cannot be stressed
enough how important it is to empathize with the adolescent (i.e.
I bet that was really hard for you when you couldn't go on the outing
with your friends, but we already had a plan to do the school project
this afternoon) and to be respectful. Respect is often conveyed
with words but also with your tone of voice. Staff and parent should
then problem-solve with the adolescent until a mutual agreement
has been reached.
It is also important to be proactive when dealing
with someone with ODD. You need to see what the function of their
defiant behavior is. Sometimes it is attention-seeking and, thus,
parents/staff need to add in more positive attention so that the
adolescent doesn't try to get her needs met in more maladaptive
ways. Children and adolescents are resourceful and will find a way
to get their attention needs met one way or another. Why not try
to make it as positive as possible?
Another reason an adolescent may seem oppositional
is because she is not processing information well. This is why psychological
testing is important to determine how an adolescent processes information
in her environment. For example, parents/staff may state that the
adolescent does not listen and is defiant when in fact, her working
memory is low and she cannot remember large amounts of information
at one time. Thus, when the parents give multi-step directions (i.e.
go to your room and get your blue book bag as well as your dirty
laundry and don't forget to grab your towels from the bathroom)
she cannot remember all of the directions and comes back having
only done one or two of the directives. Once psychological testing
is done, parents and staff can tailor their behavior and the environment
to best help the adolescent and further reduce the number of power
struggles as well as seemingly oppositional behavior.
In summary, a diagnosis of ODD should be treated
with multi-faceted approach that includes: being proactive by determining
how the adolescent processes information and making appropriate
accommodations in the environment; removing as many power struggles
as possible using the Collaborative Problem Solving model; being
respectful when talking with your teenager; empathizing when they
are in distress; and being consistent with consequences for unsafe
behavior.
Tony Grampsas Grant Funds Three
Year Bully Prevention Programming
The State of Colorado created the Tony Grampsas
Youth Services Program (TGYS) to provide funding to community-based
organizations that serve children, youth and their families with
services designed to reduce youth crime and violence and to prevent
child abuse and neglect. For three years, Excelsior has been awarded
a TGYS grant to provide our girls with the critical skills necessary
to reduce their involvement in crime, as well as victimization by
others. The skills we are teaching include learning how to identify,
respond to and eliminate bullying, intimidation and relational aggression.
Gaining these skills allows our girls to enhance their self-concept,
improve their social relationships and decrease delinquent acts,
including acts of violence. To structure this program, Excelsior
has implemented the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, which was
selected as a blueprint model by the Office of Juvenile Justice
and Delinquency Prevention. Coupled with the Strength Based Care
model and our reality based residential treatment program, girls
participate in a myriad of services designed to diminish the tragic
affects of their history of violence, abuse and deprivation.
Our bully and relational aggression prevention program
includes numerous counseling services and special activities:
- Specific training on identifying bullying, peer
interventions, ways to support victims, leadership skills, socially
acceptable ways to express frustration/anger, how self-esteem
affects bullying behaviors, cultural awareness and relational
aggression.
- Training focused on what is or has been successful
for them, seeing realistic expectations, utilizing positive building
blocks that already exist in the girl's environment that can serve
as the foundation for growth and change.
- Teachers conduct weekly 50-minute classroom meetings,
utilizing structured activities.
- Weekly one hour psycho-educational groups with
counselors, focused on reducing aggression, healthy alternatives
to violence, conflict resolution, responses to cyber bullying,
improving self-esteem, cultural awareness and sensitivity, leadership,
and the development of pro-social behaviors including friendships,
compassion and empathy.
- Bully prevention groups alternate with Strength
Based Care groups. Girls learn to define their strengths and focus
on positive ways to give and receive feedback, methods for reframing
daily challenges, and methods for identifying positive ways to
control situations.
- Girls who engage in bullying behaviors will learn
compassion for victims through restorative justice activities.
- Every week, our school's Student Leadership ROCKSTARS
Program acknowledges and rewards girls who have been positive
role models, supported victims and stood up to bullies. The ROCKSTARS
program stands for Really Outrageous, Courageous Kids Starting
to Act Responsibly.
- Each semester, we have a Bully Prevention and
Awareness Week with guest speakers, fun activities, t-shirts for
girls who make a commitment not to bully peers and organized discussions
between girls to discuss the impact of bullying on the school
atmosphere and cottage therapeutic milieu.
- Girls complete anonymous bully, victim questionnaires
at regular intervals to assess program effectiveness
Excelsior Splashes into Summer
It's summertime and there is no better way to celebrate summer than
a day of swimming at the pool. On June 7, the Excelsior Swimming
Pool opened for its third session. We are very excited and looking
forward to another great summer.
Over the summer, Excelsior Girls will
enjoy countless splash-tactular hours in the water. The gym classes
will be out to enjoy the pool on a daily basis. In addition to casual
swimming, students will have a wide range of swimming experiences
during the week, including: swimming lessons, aqua aerobics, water
volleyball, lane swimming and Friday fun day.
Throughout the summer, cottages will
have swim times after school and on the weekends. There will also
be themed pool parties for the girls to enjoy. In addition to these
fun summer swim times, we also will be hosting several swim contests
and water Olympics between the cottages.
Along with all the summertime fun,
the pool offers an opportunity to promote physical fitness and safety.
By the end of the summer, it is our belief that many of the girls
will develop a newly found confidence in themselves, a memorable
summer and a healthy hobby that will last for many summers to come.
Daniel's Fund Grant Supports Excelsior
Substance Abuse Prevention Program
Written by: Carol Beauchamp-Hunter,
MA, LPC, CACIII
Excelsior Youth Center was fortunate to have been awarded a Daniel's
Fund Grant for the 2009-2010 year for our Substance Abuse Programming.
With their generous grant we have been able to provide many learning
opportunities for the students and staff at Excelsior.
Excelsior, with the help of the Daniel's Fund, was able to send
10 staff to training in Sand Play Therapy and purchase a Sand Tray
and miniatures to use in therapy. The staff returned renewed and
ready to use this unique therapy to help girls focus on traumatic
events that helped shape their early lives and make changes to eliminate
negative behaviors and reduce substance abuse.
Resources, which have been purchased and used this year, include
Recovery Wars Comic Books and a Adolescent Relapse Prevention Workbook
that each student in specialized substance abuse groups have received
and thoroughly reviewed. Keeping the girl's attention is extremely
important at this age. Utilizing visual aids can create a better
understanding of how drugs and alcohol affect the body and give
our girls a better understanding of the dangers related to using
substances. Other DVDs covered methamphetamine, inhalants and marijuana.
The new flip charts are teaching not only the physiological responses
to drugs, but also the emotional, familial, social, financial and
legal consequences. Another great item Excelsior was able to purchase
was a beverage set which included a serving tray with a glass of
beer, a glass of wine and a mixed drink. All have a crashed car
inside the glass. These visual aids helped in discussions on drinking
and driving and parental abuse of alcohol. The Daniel's Fund Grant
also allowed us to purchase a research based Drug and Alcohol Curriculum
which included a pre/post test. This will be given to each cottage
to be used during the 2010 year.
Excelsior has continued working with the Olweus Bullying Prevention
Program and grant money was used to purchase videos on bullying
especially as it relates to substance abuse and violence. Research
has shown if you reduce aggression and anti-social behaviors, it
will also reduce substance abuse.
Having the girls normalize their behaviors and activities by investing
in healthy recreational activities without the use of substances
has been a primary objective at Excelsior. Over the course of the
past year our Recreation Department and wellness coordinator have
placed an even greater emphasis on physical activity both on and
off campus. With the addition of extra staff time devoted to activities,
more of our girls are learning how to use their leisure time without
the use of substances. These activities have improved self-confidence,
leadership abilities and i life skills as noted by therapists, monthly
reports and, girls' progress in Excelsior's phase and level program.
Activities have included swimming, aerobics, Wii fitness, hip-hop
dance classes, yoga, golf, snowboarding, gardening, kickboxing and
many more. Not only are we focusing on recreation but also looking
at total wellness to include nutrition, daily fitness classes, intramural
sports and testing for Body Mass Index (BMI).
The Grant from the Daniel's Fund has given our staff the opportunity
to take courses for their Certified Addiction Counselor certification
instead of paying for it on their tight budgets. This has benefitted
our students with even higher educated staff in specialized areas.
Excelsior cannot thank the Daniel's Fund enough for their continued
support in helping us work with our students who desperately want
to improve their quality of life.
Healthy Role Modeling for Your
Teen
By John Christie, MA, LPC
When we role model for our teenager, we are communicating to them
how we as adults manage our lives, emotions, interactions with others
and society expectations. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy provides
us with some terminology that can be adapted to examine how we communicate
with behavior, emotions and thoughts.
First, we will look at behavior. It is no secret that this is the
first way we learn how to communicate. When we were six months old,
for example, we cried and we got fed. Or, we cried and we got changed.
This is a very effective form of communication. However, for a teen
or adult person it certainly is not seen as mature. If I were to
hit someone, they would probably know I was upset, but probably
not want to understand why. Most times when a teen or adult communicates
with their behavior, it is the behavior that receives the focus,
not the reason behind the behavior. We must remember that when we
are under stress, the brain might revert to what we first learned.
In the case of communication, this can be very destructive.
The next form of communication we learn is emotion. Instead of hitting
someone, I could tell them they made me mad and that I hate them.
This would be much better than hitting someone, but still not very
effective. This sort of communication is learned around the age
of six or seven. And if I were to use it, I most likely would also
sound like a six or seven year old. Also, people tend to get defensive
when told that they made someone mad. Therefore, although emotion
is better than behavior, it is still not very mature.
Finally, we have thoughts. If I were to tell someone that I was
upset that we had an argument last week and I was worried we were
not friends anymore, that would communicate completely why I was
upset. This works well for the communication leaving us. But what
about the communication that confronts us? We as humans are wired
to try and understand the meaning behind the communication, but
all too often we assume another's meaning. Moreover, we put a negative
connotation to it. But, if we were to use our thoughtful communication
and ask what they meant by what they said or did, we could clear
up the miscommunication right away and avoid hours or days of worry
and consternation.
In looking at these forms of communication, we must realize that
there is a considerable difference in the first two and the last.
That difference is control. We don't have to be vulnerable or fear
losing control of the situation when we communicate with the first
two forms. But if we use our thoughts, then we must learn to be
vulnerable while maintaining healthy boundaries. If we as parents
and caregivers can learn to role model this most mature form of
communication, our children and clients might learn to stay calm,
and express their feelings and needs in a clear, non-confrontational
manner so they will be heard and their needs will be met.
Excelsior's Short Term Intensive
Program
In our current economic climate, fewer and fewer psychiatric hospital
beds are available for adolescents. In the fall of 2008, Excelsior
developed short-term intensive residential treatment services as
an alternative to hospitalization for young women 11-18 years of
age.
Our admissions department is available to accept young women in
crisis 24 hours per day, seven days per week. Upon admission, an
initial treatment plan is developed in concert with the placing
doctor, agency, therapist, mental health agency staff and Excelsior
clinical staff.
To effectively and quickly meet the needs of these young women,
numerous treatment services are initiated immediately. A psychiatric
evaluation is completed within 24 hours of admission. One of Excelsior's
psychiatrists will evaluate the client in person, conduct a medication
review and communicate, if applicable, with her community psychiatrist.
Excelsior's psychologist will complete a psychological evaluation.
A licensed, Master's level therapist will develop treatment planning
and implementation. This therapist will contact the family within
the first 24 hours and communicate with the family daily if this
is therapeutically indicated. The young woman will receive daily
individual therapy and family therapy. Additional therapy includes
specialized therapy groups, Excelsior's Wellness programming, religious
services (as requested) and recreational programming.
An educational diagnostician will contact the young woman's school
for appropriate schoolwork. The student will attend school at Excelsior's
middle/senior high school during weekdays.
Referrals will be accepted from county human services agencies,
school districts, juvenile courts and families placing privately
by contacting the Admissions Department at Excelsior.
Lannie Garrett's Great Women of
Song
Lannie Garrett's opening night performance of her
GREAT WOMEN OF SONG: FROM BILLIE TO BETTE will benefit the great
girls of Excelsior Youth Center on Saturday, June 12th. The benefit
will be held in downtown Denver at Lannie's Clocktower Cabaret.
The pre-party starts at 6:30 p.m. with the show from 8:00 to 9:30
p.m. The tax-deductible cost is $100 and includes appetizers and
a free glass of champagne during the pre-party (cash bar and food
afterward). Buy your tickets through Lannie's Clocktower Cabaret
box office (303) 293-0075 on 16th Street Mall or through Lannie's
website: www.lannies.com. There is $5 parking in the Park Central
Garage on Lawrence just past 15th as well as street parking. This
event is partially underwritten by Denver Investments. For questions
about Excelsior Youth Center: Carena Reber, 303-693-1550x 331 or
Carenar@excelsioryc.org.
Excelsior Youth Center named Lannie Garrett a 2008
Triumphant Woman, one of five women honored for "beating the
odds," becoming pillars of the community and displaying characteristics
worthy of a role model to Excelsior girls. Annually at the Spring
Passport Party, Excelsior honors women who have made the difficult
journey of overcoming overwhelming adversity to achieve greatness
in their chosen field or endeavor. Triumphant Women honorees may
have had troubled backgrounds, dysfunctional families, experience
with poverty, or another extreme challenge. Visit www.excelsioryc.org
for forms to nominate candidates for the March 19, 2011 party.
Excelsior High School Graduation
Congratulations to the 13 students who will be graduating from Excelsior
High School on Friday, May 21: Tiffany, Natalie Co, Natalie Ca,
Shante, Ruby, Nicollette, Lillian, Shatawna, Kayla, Lauren, Hannah,
Marquilla and Ivory. Congratulations, Graduates! We are so proud
of you and your hard work. Our graduates and their families will
enjoy a reception from 10 to 11 a.m. with therapists and school
staff. Excelsior has a special graduation luncheon in the cafeteria
for all of our girls, graduates and family members. For Spring 2010,
we are honored to have Dr. Zelda DeBoyes, Court Administrator for
the City of Aurora as our commencement speaker. In addition to Dr.
DeBoyes, Excelsior graduation ceremonies include a slide show of
photos of our grads, their friends, staff and teachers, a short
speech from every grad, and a presentation of diplomas and songs
from the Excelsior High School Choir.
Adopted Children and Reactive Attachment Disorder
For healthy cognitive, emotional, social and behavioral development,
healthy attachment by a child to their primary caregiver in the
first three years of life is critical. Learning to trust develops
as the baby has a need that is met by the caregiver, usually the
mother. A baby is hungry, cries and is fed by the mother. A toddler
falls down, is frightened and her mother picks her up and comforts
her. As the process is repeated over and over, the child learns
that she can trust the caregiver and becomes attached. Her caregiver
is a constant in her life and a source of comfort, safety, food,
warmth and care. If the relationship is close and secure, then the
child learns to trust and love.
Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is the result of non-existent,
inappropriate or negative responses to the child's needs. Her ability
to trust and attach to other people is damaged. She learns that
the world is an unsafe place, other people are not to be trusted
and she feels alone in the world. An infant child with RAD may exhibit
an indifference to others, resistance to physical contact, stiff
response to cuddling, poor eye contact, lack of reciprocal smiles,
and delays in developmental milestones. A child may demonstrate
poor peer relationships, poor impulse control, depression, anger,
lack of conscience, abnormal speech patterns and control issues.
Adopted children can have additional challenges during the first
few months of life that can, in some cases, lead to RAD. Research
shows that there is some pre-natal and post-natal attachment. At
birth and for the initial minutes and days of life, the infant recognizes
the birth mother's voice and smell. Adopted children are separated
from their birth mother and then have a new caregiver. In some cases,
the child moves from birth mother to foster mother to adoptive mother.
These changes in the primary caregiver can cause significant disruptions
to the child's attachment process. The infant experiences changes
in the caregiver's look, smell and sound. There are also changes
in the living environment's sounds and smells. The greater the number
of changing caretakers and the older the child before adoption,
the more difficult it becomes for the child to attach fully to the
adoptive parents.
Excelsior Expands Day Treatment
Programming
Day Treatment has been an important part of Excelsior's continuum
of treatment services, supporting at-risk girls ages 11-18 and their
families by providing a safe, structured environment as an alternative
to removal from their families. These girls are behaviorally and
emotionally stable enough to reside safely in the community but
struggle to function effectively in the public school setting.
The goal is to provide a fully accredited school program with individual,
group and family therapy. Upon admission, a Needs and Strengths
Assessment will be completed using a variety of evidence based tests
. A Psychiatric Evaluation is completed to determine the client's
clinical diagnosis and to review medication history along with the
development of a treatment plan with short-term and long-term goals
and objectives. Additionally an Aftercare Plan will be developed
by Excelsior's Aftercare Coordinator, the treatment team and family
to help indentify transitional needs and resources.
While in Day Treatment, girls will work in weekly Individual Therapy
to address diagnosed problems, teach new coping skills, promote
effective choices, and promote healthy problem solving and goal
setting. Girls and their families will have on-site Family Therapy
sessions, telephone consultation, 24 hours crisis telephone support/intervention
and on-site Impact Family
Girls participate in Specialized Group Therapy on site to address
a multitude of treatment issues. Typical group topics may include:
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Substance Abuse, Anger Management,
Healthy Relationships, Survivors of Sexual Abuse, Relapse Prevention,
Life Skills, and Family Dynamics. Medication Management is completed
weekly by the therapist in consultation with the psychiatrist and
medication management when appropriate.
Transportation is available to bring clients to the campus and return
them after the school day; this promotes consistent attendance and
improved school performance.
Programming During School Breaks is provided for clients on days
that school is traditionally out (ie: holidays, no contact school
days, etc.)
Structured Afternoon/Evening Care is available for parents who are
in need of additional support prior to getting off work. Parents
can pick up their child on the way home from work. During their
time on campus, clients are involved in activities such as study
hall, additional group time and recreational therapy opportunities.
Educational Services are provided by Excelsior's Junior/Senior High
School which is accredited by the Colorado Department of Education
and the North Central Association Commission on Accreditation and
School Improvement. Each student has an (Individualized Education
Plan) or PLP (Personal Learning Plan) which outlining the goals
and objectives that help the student learn best. Students are able
to work in core subject area classes (English, math, science, social
studies), as well as art, music, physical education and variety
of elective classes (i.e.; women's studies, computer applications,
etc.), vocation training and General Educational Development (GED)
preparation. Additional educational supports such as speech/language
therapy are available.
Enhanced Day Treatment provides additional services to support clients
and families to include the following at a supplemental rate. These
services include:
- In-Home Impact Family Therapy and Behavior Coaching - In-Home
Family Therapy and Behavior Coaching for up to 6 hours a week.
- Overnight Crisis Care and Hospital Diversion can be provided
on campus in one of the residential units for 1-2 nights at the
Day Treatment rate. Additional nights available at the residential
rate on approval from the social worker, placing agency and/or
courts.
- Additional Psychological Testing and Assessment - Excelsior's
psychologist can complete additional mental health and/or educational
needs/functioning.
- Parenting Group - Excelsior provides groups to parents that
are supportive and psycho-educational.
Referrals and Admission:
Referrals will be accepted from county human services agencies,
school districts, juvenile courts and families placing privately
by contacting the admissions department at Excelsior:
Culinary Arts Students go to DCPA's
Buell Theater
By Trisha Wilson, Culinary Arts
When a person thinks of Culinary Arts we think of teaching the art
of food. For our students, it encompasses so much more. Etiquette,
professionalism in and out of the work place, money management,
teamwork, and opening a view on possibilities they never might know
could be theirs.
For dinner we went to Red Robin before the theater and the girls
were given a 12-dollar budget and told they could order anything
their budget would allow. They were quite inventive splitting hamburger
orders so they could have appetizers and a drink. Or, only having
water and splitting a salad with a hamburger. All had napkins on
their laps, big smiles and would have been at ease at any five star
restaurant. They made me proud.
The students represented Excelsior with grace and
class to make any school take notice. Dressed in their white jackets,
black shoes and black dress pants they held their heads high. Throughout
the night they were asked what school they were from. They very
politely responded EYC Culinary Arts. I overheard Jessica telling
an elderly couple about our Coffee Friday and what she had worked
on. She was so excited when they said they wished they could have
been there.
For dessert they were given $1.50 and upon examining the menu realized
they could not afford it. As a team, they decided to go to Walgreens,
pick a treat and take it to the theater for intermission. Imagine
how it looked, 10 high school girls descending on Walgreens in white
chef jackets giggling and finagling with one another on what was
the best buy. What a sight!
The play was wonderful, funny and great from start to finish. What
was so amazing to me were their faces, I was so distracted watching
them. Belly laughs, and quiet remarks of "That is so cool,"
or "oh my gosh!" Caprice never sat back in her chair,
so thoroughly engrossed that she stated out loud, "That's beautiful,"
and then said, "Did I say that out loud?" Nicolette, who
was sitting next to her giggling quietly very kindly said "Yes,
but that's ok."
On my drive home, my mind went over the night and my heart warmed.
I know it meant something different to each student. Juliet said
she never once felt like running and she felt happy, Kasey said
the play showed her that she has to do it for herself and she will
get respect for her hard work. Alyssa said, "There is so much
out there I didn't know about. I have never been to a play."
I went to sleep that night tired but a very happy teacher.
Creative Education at Excelsior
High School
By Darryll Brown
The Mystery Class, an Excelsior High School offering since the
early nineties, is still going strong and turning out amateur sleuths.
Conceived by Barry McDermott and Darrell Brown as a way to meet
the needs of children unchallenged or unprepared for the transition
to college, the class is a blend of critical thinking and advanced
literature. It is part Criminology 101 and part whodunit. Girls
who have taken the class in the past have written back, saying that
it inspired them to choose a career in a criminology-related field,
and that it helped them with the rigorous demands of higher education.
Says current teacher, Mr. Brown, "On any given day, the students
can expect to juggle several cases-like a detective might have-observe
any changes to the room-like examining a crime scene-and take notes
on the appearance and behavior of any visitors-treating them as
suspects or practice for sketch artists. The class is a mixture
of the unexpected and the disciplined. The students always seem
to be up for the challenge."
Students in the class study great mystery stories, real and fictional
cases and detectives, reasoning, forensic science, history, and
terminology. During the years the number of activities has grown
considerably, but Mr. Brown now teaches it as a block class to allow
in-depth coverage of the concepts. "It's a fun class to teach,
but it's tough to stay ahead of the students. As the semester goes
on, they become better observers, develop teamwork, keep better
track of information, and really excel."

University Hills Rotary Club Sponsors Science
Fair
On March 9th, members of the University Hills Rotary Club were
judges for the Excelsior Science Fair. For the past five years,
this Rotary Club has underwritten the costs of conducting the
fair and members have served as the judges. Thank you to this
year's judges: Larry Bell, Jim MacDermott, Lowell Palmquist, Ruth
Wilson, Mike Hitchcock, Phil Beaver, Jay Shoemaker, Don Goe, Rocky
Rauchenstein. The Science Fair encourages Excelsior students to
challenge themselves in their Science classes. For many students
this is the first time they have entered a science fair. Excelsior
students competed for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place trophies in the High
School Experimental, High School Research, Middle School Experimental,
Middle School Research, Creativity, and Scientific Method categories.
Excelsior's middle and senior high school includes all of the
core academic classes (math, science, English and social studies)
along with physical education, art and music. The school includes
a Culinary Arts program, Graphic Arts and a fully licensed school
of Cosmetology.
U-Hills Rotary has a long history of supporting Excelsior's girls;
Club members serve on Excelsior's Operations and Foundation Boards
and provide support at EYC events. One Club member and his wife
sponsor the Excelsior-Lawton Scholarship program which provides
scholarship funds to EYC graduates for education beyond Excelsior.
The Jim MacDermott Science Award given annually to the Outstanding
Excelsior Science Student is named for a U-Hills member and long-time
Excelsior Board member.
Yoga, the Art of Being
"The most beautiful people we have known are
those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known
loss, and have found their way out of the depths
"
-Elizabeth Kubler Ross
As part of the Wellness Program at Excelsior, the
practice of Yoga is used to help guide our girls out of their own
depths with tools of empowerment, life balance, and well being.
The word Yoga, translates into the word "yoke" which means
to bind/connect. Through Yoga, our clients are allowed the opportunity
to connect their mind, body and spirit, as they have come to us
broken, with a sense of defeat, suffering, and loss. The movement
of Yoga gives permission to explore themes of body image, emotional
regulation, relationships, self esteem, coping, mindfulness, accomplishment,
as well as life celebration and self-creation. Yoga, though challenging,
provides a safe environment to push limits, test boundaries, balance
emotions and most of all, to build trust with oneself.
Shana Hood, M.A., L.P.C.
Art Therapy Helping Girls Work
Through Issues
When faced with confronting distressing personal issues, young women
in treatment can benefit from unique therapeutic tools. Excelsior
Youth Center offers a variety of Art Therapy experiences to help
young women express themselves and work through difficult issues
they may not otherwise feel comfortable sharing. Art Therapy groups
at Excelsior Youth Center offer a wide variety of artistic formats
for clients to share feelings or to just feel relaxed through artistic
expression. The young women at Excelsior are encouraged to utilize
means of expressions they are familiar with and to explore new art
forms. Girls are given the opportunity to participate in basic art
activities such as painting, drawing, molding clay, coloring, and
the not so basic art activities such as recording music, graphic
design, creating snow sculptures, and photography. Also offered
is a variety of more structured art therapy exercises where our
girls are given a more specific theme or task to accomplish during
the group with the intention of helping them develop a more enhanced
sense of self awareness.
By introducing young women to new artistic experiences not only
do they benefit by moving forward therapeutically, but it also gives
them tools to be successful in the future. Young women who experience
Art Therapy can not only use these experiences to cope with everyday
stressors faced during their time in treatment, but they can also
use these tools to face everyday challenges for the rest of their
lives. Helping young women realize their talents or enhancing a
talent which already exists allows them to express themselves in
a new language, the language of Art.
Michael Pisney, M.A.

Art work by 2 Excelsior Students
Family Intervention:
Exploring Couples Therapy During
Child's Placement
Written by: Richard A. Stapleton, M.C., N.C.C., L.P.C.
The decision to place a child in residential treatment can be difficult
for everyone involved. Many of the clients who I work with have
supportive family members who report years of seeking help for their
child's emotional and behavioral problems. After years of crying
out for help and exhausting all available resources, the family
may find additional help through school districts, mental health
agencies, or social services. Most of the families who I talk with
state they are relieved knowing their child is in a safe place and
is able to get the help that the child needs. I've talked to few
parents who were given advice to take some time to focus on their
marriage during their child's placement, and few family service
plans have this as a service recommendation.
From the therapist's perspective, the child's emotional and behavioral
problems are only one part of a much larger issue. Families have
endured years of stress such as grief, loss, financial difficulties,
job losses, and school issues. Most families can persevere when
challenged with one or two major life events. Multiple problems
make it difficult for parents to cope with stress resulting in a
greater likelihood for marital problems (Walsh, 2003). Parents spend
years focusing on the child's problems. Through years of focusing
on the child's emotional and behavioral problems, parents sometimes
lose sight of the common activities and events that brought them
together resulting in them falling in love. The child becomes the
focus and when the child goes to treatment, parents are often left
feeling as if they no longer have anything in common resulting in
further strain on the marriage (Hanna, 2007; Worden, 2003).
When placing a child into residential care, therapists and caseworkers
should consider recommending couples therapy for the parents. This
will help parents explore issues inappropriate to discuss with their
children. It will also help parents reconnect with each other and
strengthen their bond therefore allowing them to become a stronger
unit to care for their child. In cases in which couples therapy
is not an option, the caseworker therapist should explore one of
the following:
- During family therapy construct the family timeline. Have the
parents construct a timeline starting with their childhood leading
up to the moment when they met and identify key milestone events
in their lives. During the dating relationship, have the parents
identify what attracted them to each other, common interests,
and memorable activities while dating. While the parents are constructing
their timeline, the child or children are also creating their
own timeline. Have the family share their timelines and milestone
events with each other. It is healthy for the children to hear
the romantic tale of their parents meeting, and it will help the
parents remember why they fell in love (Hanna, 2007).
- Make "date night" a therapeutic assignment. This will
help parents maintain their unity and focus time on their relationship.
Have the parents avoid activities such as going to the movies.
Movies do not require interaction with each other. Maybe recommend
that the family do something that they enjoyed while in the dating
relationship before marriage or the formal partnership.
- Implement family game night. This is an inexpensive activity
for the entire family allowing healthy stress relief, communication,
and family team building.
Our goal in treatment is to provide the child with the help she
needs and to provide support for the family system. By focusing
some time on the parents' relationship, we are providing the parents
with the tools needed to strengthen family bonds and unity. Parents
may feel overwhelmed, and it is important to help them strengthen
their relationship in order to provide the best possible support
for the child.
Cutting
and Treatment Strategies
Written by: John Christie MA, LPC
Cutting presents special and specific issues to understand. To
begin with, cutting is a behavior and like other negative behaviors
or coping skills, it is a symptom. If we address the cutting only,
we will not be attending to the cause of the issue. In this way,
we might temporarily stop the behavior, but it will resurface at
some time in the future. However, we must be diligent in keeping
the client safe. Therefore, treating a cutter requires a multi-faceted
approach to not only keep the client safe, but address the negative
and often irrational thought pattern that enforces the cutting.
First, we need to understand some of the reasons someone self-abuses
in this manner. One reason I have seen is personality. Most of the
cutters I have had the opportunity to work with are introverts or
they at least lean to that side of the spectrum. Being this way,
they tend to turn the hurt and anger inward rather than outward
to others. Another reason includes a tangible expression of emotion,
as we work with many girls that do not know how to appropriately
express their emotions. It also provides a release of anger and
other emotions. One girl told me that an extreme emotion requires
an extreme reaction or behavior. Some have said that it provides
a level of comfort. This may be due to the distraction that cutting
provides. However, one of the most prevalent reasons for cutting
is control. Cutting provides a measure of control over their lives
and emotions. Additionally, it is very difficult to completely 'take
away' this coping skill from a client. The following are additional
reasons for cutting that need to be considered when developing a
treatment plan:
- Boredom
- Negative attention seeking
- Distraction
- Self-Punishment
- Copy-Cat Behavior
- Reality - makes them feel something they know is real, something
they can see
- Reputation - cutting is seen as more 'cool' than say, punching
oneself in the face
Obviously, successful treatment necessitates keeping the client
safe. Once safety can be maintained or controlled, we can begin
to tackle the thought patterns that lead to the cutting. This work
includes discovering the manner in which the past trauma was originally
processed. If, for example, they were molested and the thought that
developed was, 'that's all I'm good for', that will impact their
emotional state in a very negative way, which will in turn affect
behavior in a negative manner. These negative and irrational thoughts
need to be processed in a more rational way that is external and
positive. Along with behavior, work needs to focus on their communication.
Communication work includes outgoing as well as incoming communication.
Often, clients have a negative and irrational interpretation of
the messages they receive from others. The client will often assume
that other adults or authority figures in their lives will hurt
them. Therefore, they need to learn how to be vulnerable without
taking down all their boundaries. If they are able to process this
information and re-program their brain to their new surroundings,
they begin to gain skills to solve their own problems. That is when
true healing begins.

Burton Snowboarding CHILL Program
allows our girls to go snowboarding!
Over the past six years, Excelsior girls have learned to snowboard
and enjoyed Colorado's winter fun thanks to the Chill program. Burton
Boards sponsors the Chill Program whose mission is to provide unique
and positive experiences to underserved youth through snowboarding.
With this program, Excelsior girls take the long bus ride up to
the mountains each week, excited to continue learning to ride.
A lot of our girls have never seen snow, let alone been on a mountain
and learning to snowboard. Many girls come to us from the streets
and broken homes. Some are in gangs and addicted to drugs while
others have experienced abuse and neglect that is hard to imagine.
Other girls are filled with sadness and anger. Chill gives them
something fun to look forward to every week while teaching them
life lessons in patience, persistence, responsibility, respect,
integrity and pride. Many of our girls continue to apply these lessons
in their lives after Chill is over, and after they leave Excelsior.
After leaving Excelsior, one of our girls moved home to California,
went to college, and started volunteering with the Chill program
out there. Another has moved home to Boulder, continues to ride,
and comes back to visit the girls at Excelsior, bringing them pizza
and encouraging words, trying to pass on the same lessons she learned
while in the Chill program.
This winter alone, Chill will work with over 2,200 youth across
the globe. For more information about Chill, visit www.chill.org.
Five Young Women Celebrate Success
at Excelsior
Working hard on their educational goals while residing
at Excelsior Youth Center, five young women are graduating from
Excelsior's High School. Excelsior's emotional graduation ceremonies
always include filmed messages from each graduate who thank and
acknowledge all the people in their life who have helped them accomplish
their goals. We're proud of our graduates who include: Chandra,
Cinnamon, Heather, and Brittany.

Effective Therapy for Clients
With Borderline Personality Disorder
By Christy Pennington,
MA, LPC, Admissions Manager
The title says it all, I Hate You, Don't Leave Me
by Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Strauss; It's an old book, but a good
one in understanding borderline personality disorder. When you have
a client that creates that push, pull in relationships, continues
to think in black and white, and acts impulsively, dialectic behavior
therapy (DBT) can help.
Originally, this was a therapy designed to address the specific
needs of those struggling with borderline personality disorder (BPD)
who experienced difficulty with treatment as usual in the past.
Since this time, studies have shown DBT to be helpful not only with
BPD, but with other issues such as eating disorders, bipolar disorders
and substance abuse.
DBT is a behavioral system of both individual and group therapy,
whereby the client is taught to identify thinking patterns and work
through dialectical issues so as they can make more "effective"
decisions for themselves.
DBT Group Skills Training is the therapy group portion of the therapy
during which skills are taught in four areas that those with BPD
specifically struggle with: distress tolerance, emotion regulation,
interpersonal effectiveness and mindfulness.
Individual therapy - Those who struggle with BPD and like disorders
see the world from extremes - black and white thinking. Individual
therapy is used to help clients identify when they are employing
black and white thinking, and how to challenge themselves to avoid
this. For example, a client who has been a dangerous cutter for
years may need to see that her family can love and miss her very
much (with the daughter being in placement), and still feel great
relief that she is not in the home. These feelings can and do coexist,
and are not mutually exclusive. Dialectics such as acceptance vs.
change, and willingness vs. willfulness are continually discussed.
The final arm of this therapy is having a support system for therapists
and counselors who work with these difficult clients. BPD has been
considered the most difficult disorder to work with due to the fact
that clients struggle so much with sabotaging all relationships,
including that with their therapist. Therapists and counselors must
therefore approach these difficult clients with a very open and
validating perspective. At Excelsior, our Treatment Team model provides
the support needed to each other while continuing to provide nonjudgmental
services to the client on a consistent basis.
Strength Based Care
For the past three years Excelsior has been training staff in the
principles of a paradigm created by Charlie Applestein. No Such
Thing as a Bad Kid has provided the foundation of the necessary
positive relationship for working with our clients, and established
a recurrent theme for strategizing, managing and supporting our
clientele. Highlights of his Strength Based Care principles include:
We believe there is no such thing as a bad kid; just bad luck and
bad choices.
We believe that all individuals possess core strengths that can
be utilized to lead meaningful lives.
Our work involves mutually indentifying, developing, encouraging,
practicing and maximizing the inherent strengths in every individual.
To accomplish our treatment goals, we establish a positive, upbeat,
and safe environment that instills hope and provides multiple opportunities
for success, and at all times adheres to the golden rule.
We believe a good life is all about making good choices. Although
we have deep respect and empathy for where our kids have been, our
major focus is on the present and the road ahead.
At Excelsior, staff use these principles in a variety of situations,
from individual therapy to extreme crisis situations. Our clients
respond well when there is a distinct and deliberate focus on their
strengths and unconditional positive support for their attempts
at making progress in their treatment. Staff have also been empowered
through using more positive strategies for managing our very difficult
clients.
Matt Louzon, MA, LPC
Team and Treatment Coordinator
Treatment and Learning Center
Excelsior Youth Center
Culinary Arts on TV cooking their
signature dish SOPA
Our Culinary Arts program was on FOX 31 this Tuesday. Ms. Trish
(instructor), Amanda (student) and Regina (student) all did a wonderful
job cooking, talking and portraying a beautiful picture of the program.
They taught us all about cooking on a budget and still making a
gourmet delicious meal! Please click on the link below to see the
3 minute segment.
Click
here to see the Culinary Arts link on FOX 31
Everyday with Libby and Natalie can be seen on
FOX 31 Monday Friday at 4 p.m. After nine years of reporting
the news on Channel 31 for Libby and seven years in the Denver market
for Natalie, the two were given a chance to headline their own show,
taking an in-depth approach to everything from American Idol callbacks
to ways depression can affect children.
Theatre for Excelsior
In partnership with the Denver Center for the Performing Arts (DCPA)
Theatre Academy, Excelsior Youth Center is presenting a series of
theatre arts workshops to enhance self-esteem, increase teamwork
and improve self-expression.
Allison Watross, Professional Actress and Theatre Academy instructor,
will conduct the after school workshops for 12 Excelsior girls who
have been identified by their therapists as candidates for such
a therapeutic program.
"Dramatic Learning incorporates problem solving and provides
opportunities for critical and imaginative thinking, in addition
to instilling an appreciation for the arts," explains Allison.
"The workshops show the girls how art can express a wide range
of human experiences in an original way."
Though initially donated by the DCPA Theatre Academy, the workshops
will continue through May if Excelsior can raise $2,500. If you
can help, please DONATE NOW.
Each workshop includes a physical warm up period to introduce the
girls to Allison and provides an overview of the material to be
covered that day. The workshop integrates the arts through active
involvement of the girls allowing them to express themselves in
a safe environment.
"Participants will engage in team building exercises used
in acting training to enhance communication skills, presence, self
expression, confidence, and inter-personal relationships,"
Allison says. "Through kinetic and hands-on ACTivities, this
series of workshops is designed to spark creativity, lateral thinking,
ignite possibility, and stir up a passion for the arts.
Excelsior wishes Terry well and welcomes
Jim Uhernik
After 29 years Terry Hoffman is retiring from her position as the
Admission Director at Excelsior Youth Center.
Jim Uhernik will be stepping into her position as the Director
of Business Development and Admissions. Jim is a Licensed Professional
Counselor (LPC) and holds a Bachelor's in Criminology from the Metropolitan
State College of Denver and a Master's in Psychology from Regis
University. He has worked at Excelsior for the last 10 years as
a supervisor and therapist, and has also worked as an outpatient
therapist at Arapahoe Douglas Mental Health and a group therapist
at the Betty Marler Youth Services Center.
Working with residential treatment, community mental health and
youth corrections, Jim has developed a good understanding of the
various needs of referral agencies and the difficult framework they
often operate in. In these tough financial times, providing treatment
that is both cost-effective and conducive to supporting the stability
of families can be very challenging. Jim understands that the treatment
community is small and working cooperatively with agencies to provide
quality care is essential.
More recently Jim has worked closely with county mental health
and local human service agencies to address how Excelsior can meet
their needs and provide quality treatment. Jim has been very involved
in the development of new programming at Excelsior including: Short-Term
Intensive Residential Treatment (Hospital Diversion); Assessment
and Stabilization Program; and Day Treatment to include programming
for school breaks, Structured Afternoon/Evening Care and an Enhance
Day Treatment option to include In-Home Impact Family, Overnight
Crisis Care and Hospital Diversion, Parenting Group, and Additional
Psychological Testing and Assessment (upon request).
In 2010 Jim plans to promote Excelsior's program to both Colorado
and out-of-state referral agencies and will be talking with individuals
and teams about Excelsior's continuum of treatment and flexible
lengths of stay.
It's a Wrap!

The Fresh Faces Denver Fashion Show on Saturday, July 18 was a
night of excitement, trends and self esteem building. As part of
Westwood College's fashion merchandising event production course,
the evening served as a learning opportunity for both the students
who planned it and the Excelsior Youth Center girls that modeled
the fashions.
Sixteen students from Excelsior modeled the latest designs from
the collection of Denver-based designer Francis Roces of Kimono
Dragons. The fashion trends on the runway ranged from baby doll
dresses to fierce kimono inspired pieces.
As the Excelsior girls walked down the runway with their hair styled
in everything from spiky Mohawks to long-flowing waves and adorned
with brightly colored eye shadow, they looked out to supporters
from the local community and several of their classmates and peers.
It was an exhilarating night for the students, staff and supporters
of Excelsior.
"We were happy to be part of this program allowing the girls
to have attention on them for something positive," said Joan
Gabrielson, executive director of Excelsior. "So often these
young girls are in the spotlight for doing something wrong, but
this night was about being the center of attention for a good reason.
The models learned a lot about fashion, self confidence and a way
to have fun in a positive manner."
The fashion merchandising students at Westwood College also gained
valuable lessons. The students were tasked with planning all details
of this evening from fundraising, design and production for their
event planning course.
Excelsior thanks the Fashion Merchandising students at Westwood
College, North Campus, for making it all happen.
Paws 4 Trust Needs
More Paws!

For girls at Excelsior Youth Center, there is one special activity
that brings smiles, laughter and sometimes tears - Paws 4 Trust.
The girls sprint down to the multi-purpose room anxious to see their
new friends and confidantes. They are greeted by wagging tails,
sloppy kisses and barks as they take their seats in a circle at
Paws 4 Trust weekly session at Excelsior. The dogs climb into the
girls' laps or curl up at their feet as the girls begin to share
their struggles.
"I pet him, and I feel different," said Meagan, an Excelsior
resident. "I talk to the dog about my family, about my life.
And even though he doesn't talk back, I can tell he listens."
Paws 4 Trust is a unique program that allows Excelsior girls to
experience the power of compassion, unconditional love and respect
through the relationship of a human-animal bond. By socializing
and interacting with companion therapy dogs and handlers, Paws 4
Trust promotes responsible caretaking of all animals and encourages
healthy, positive human-canine interactions. Once a week the girls
gather to learn about dog ownership, teach the dog's obedience and
tricks and spend time petting the dogs. Ultimately the goal of this
interaction is to experience empathy, positive learning (and teaching)
techniques, personal awareness, team building, respect for individual
differences and appreciation for our similarities. For many of these
girls, Paws 4 Trust has helped them heal.
"Paws 4 Trust has allowed me to bond with the dogs, build
trust and show love," said Michelle, a 20 year-old Excelsior
resident. "I've gained the courage to try new things."
We have lots of girls who would like to be a part of this program
but we don't have enough dogs and handlers to accommodate everyone.
Are you and your dog interested in being a part of Excelsior's Paws
4 Trust program? If so, please call 303-680-1719 or email to jschoech@comcast.net.
School is Cool
Natalie C. is one of the many girls that participate in Excelsior's
"School is Cool" program.
Natalie, from Union City, Calif., has battled depression, bullying
and isolation issues throughout her young life. In fact, her fears
of others not liking her eventually drove her to drop out of school.
"Isolation was a huge problem for me," Natalie said. "I
was depressed a lot and was also getting bullied at school so I
stopped going."
Natalie was placed in a day treatment program and then a residential
treatment program in California, but once again stopped attending
school because she didn't like being around people.
Excelsior Youth Center was her last hope.
At Excelsior, Natalie quickly learned that if she didn't attend
school there would be consequences. Excelsior's unique school programs,
her cottage residence and her therapists helped her accept that
being around people is a part of life.
"Excelsior has lots of extra classes to make school cool,"
Natalie said. "I love being in my Life Skills, Student Leadership
and Advanced Art classes. I especially like Student Leadership class
because we do peer mediation, bake sales, adopt a family, food drives,
the ROCKSTAR program (Really Outrageous Cool Kids Starting To Act
Respectfully) and much more."
Currently, Natalie is enjoying her classes and has several friends
in her classes. She is expected to graduate from Excelsior in May
2010.
Lace up your Converse or saddle shoes and join us for Excelsior's
4th annual Steppin' Up event on Sept. 23 at 7p.m. featuring the
musical Grease at the Littleton Town Hall Arts Center. This year
all proceeds will benefit Excelsior's "School is Cool"
program to encourage at risk girls to stay in high school.
Tickets cost $40 for reserved VIP seating or $20 for open seating
and wine, beer and light desserts are included. Advanced tickets
sales are required by contacting Carena Reber at 303-693-1550 ext.
331 or carenar@excelsioryc.org. Parental guidance is suggested.
Its All About the Girls
Ask any volunteer why they chose Excelsior and theyll say:
Its the girls. Its all about the girls.
Yes, our Excelsior girls capture your hearts, emotions, interest
and trigger the how can I help instinct.
While decorating center piece baskets for Excelsiors gala
recently along side several of our Excelsior girls, Anne Fanganello,
laughed while burning her fingers with the glue guns. I just
love these girls
their energy, creativity, excitement for
the project. Im ready to volunteer with these girls on a regular
basis.
Originally from Denver, she studied in Italy and spent eighteen
years in New York City in the fashion industry. As she pursued her
dreams of being a fashion designer, she found a higher calling in
technical design, management and operations. As Nanette Lepores
right hand man and COO of Zac Posen, she collaborated
to produce not only beautiful clothing but also over-the-top theatrical
runway shows and glamorous retail stores. She has returned to her
hometown to help manage the Denver division of WM Events. Anne is
driven to take the event puzzle and snap each piece into its precise
place. She has surrounded her life with color, texture, music, timing
and schedules, striving for perfection to create a flawless event.
Once introduced to Excelsiors mission last February, Fanganello
volunteered with the committee as she added pizzaz, sparkle and
a unique touch to our recent annual gala, Ever Upward: Love &
Laughter. Shes the one who thought of asking the girls to
decorate white baskets with gorgeous ribbon and decorative trims
she generated donations from the NYC fashion houses such as Nannette
Lapore. Working along side the girls while laughing and creating,
Fanganello saw an opportunity to give back: volunteering with the
girls on a regular schedule. Soon she will explore a variety of
volunteer options by working with Excelsiors Volunteer Coordinator,
Marisa Escobedo. Shell attend Volunteer Orientation sessions
and then see where her skills fit in.
Hundreds of community volunteers serve Excelsior annually in a
variety of unique and special ways. If you want to join them, please
contact Marisa Escobedo at Marisae@excelsioryc.org or 303-693-1550x311.
Anne says: Working with Excelsior girls was an experience
that will be close to my heart forever. I was not aware of what
they did and thought that I was entering their "brochure"
world of smiling, happy girls who loved life. Instead, I was thrust
into a world of girls who had struggled their whole lives and were
trying to break through thick walls of trauma, depression, and a
need for love. As I walked through the doors I took up my hammer
and chisel and tentatively began to tap away at those walls.
When I was first introduced to the girls it was an assault
to my senses. I was scared, impressed, confused and intrigued by
these young girls' personalities and their power to push me away.
We had come up with the idea to have the girls produce baskets with
ribbons, flowers, and bows to be used as table centerpieces but
suddenly, I was fearful as I envisioned these girls with scissors
and pieces of rope and glue guns.
I walked into the classroom prepared to be teacher, leader, and
a kind face. But, there was that wall. I was not going to be able
to break through. As the girls arrived they were uncomfortable with
the new face, a different project and knowledge of humanity that
equals anger and unhappiness. I took my fear and turned it into
strength and power while theirs came out as strength and resistance.
As we began our project they turned into young girls excited
with the ribbons and bows and I softened to my typical happy, smiling
demeanor. By the time we were done we were all friends. As I left
they held up their beautiful baskets saying, "Look what I did!"
They were proud of themselves and the final product was amazing.
Our sledgehammers had made the final brick fall to the side as the
girls and I met with no walls left between us.
Honorary Graduate: Lannie Garrett

Principal, Jann Clevenger, left,
and Executive Director, Joan Gabrielson, right, congratulate Lannie
Garrett as an honorary graduate at the May Excelsior Youth Center
graduation ceremonies.
Lannie Garrett, Denver iconic songstress, grabbed
an honorary high school diploma with the other 9 graduates today
at Excelsior Youth Center. As the inspirational guest speaker, she
told the graduates and their families since she dropped out of high
school, she never wore "one of those cute blue hats and gowns.
But I went back and earned a GED but I've always missed participating
in a high school graduation ceremony. May I?" she asked Principal,
Jann Clevenger. After getting permission from the other graduates
Garrett received her own cap and gown and quickly moved her chair
to join the girls.
Lannie left home at 16 and lived with different friends to get away
from the family violence in her own home. "Both my parents
were deep into alcohol addiction and we lived on junk food, hostess
cupcakes and tv dinners. I ALWAYS wanted to be an entertainer. It
took me decades of work to turn my sadness and depression around
but I did it."
Lannie's two messages to the 2009 Excelsior graduates: "Don't
act like a victim like I did. It took me years to change. Start
celebrating little things and send out good thoughts to everyone
you meet and your life will instantly change for the better,"
she said. "Secondly, be true to your word. Become someone others
can always count on. Things will really happen for you when others
KNOW you can be trusted."
Lannie's natural ability to connect with her audience, her comedic
instincts and her stage presence make her in demand as a singer/entertainer
in clubs and for corporate events all over the nation. Three years
ago she opened her own nightclub beneath the historic D&F tower,
Lannie's Clocktower Cabaret.
"I think HAPPINESS is a goal, not something that just happens
to you," said Lannie.
Lannie was named by Excelsior as a Triumphant Woman in 2008, as
someone who has made the difficult journey of overcoming seemingly
overwhelming adversity to achieve greatness in their chosen field
or endeavor. Triumphant Women honorees may have had troubled backgrounds,
dysfunctional families, experience with poverty, or another extreme
challenge. Triumphant Women are honored for "beating the odds"
and becoming pillars of the community, displaying characteristics
worthy of a role model to Excelsior girls.
Carmelo Anthony provides Excelsior
free hair cuts

PHOTO caption: Barb Barth (EYC cosmetology staff),
Lewis Griffin (Studio 15 general manager), Jason Hart (#6 on the
Denver Nuggets), Theresa (EYC cosmetology student) and Joanne Greenberg
(EYC cosmetology staff)
"15 on the 15th"
The Carmelo Anthony Foundation treated girls from Excelsior Youth
Centers cosmetology school to free haircuts at Carmelo Anthonys
Studio 15 (www.Studio15Barbershop.com) recently as part of the organizations
monthly 15 on the 15th program. The Denver Nuggets
forward launched the initiative at the onset of 2009 as a way to
utilize his barbershop to help disadvantaged children and underserved
adults in programs throughout the Denver area.
The girls from Excelsior received free haircuts from the professional
staff at Studio 15. Denver-based American Crew provided each girl
with a personal care gift bag containing grooming products. Studio
15 is located at 1740 Blake Street in Denvers LoDo District.
The 15 on the 15th program is part of the Carmelo Anthony
Foundations commitment to serving the communities that have
impacted Melos life. On the 15th of each month, 15 children
or adults from deserving community organizations throughout the
Denver area will receive free haircuts at Studio 15. Each month,
the Foundation selects a different organization as the beneficiary
of the program.
About The Carmelo Anthony Foundation
In 2005, Carmelo Anthony established the Carmelo Anthony Foundation
as the vehicle for which he and his family would give back to the
community through a variety of outreach programs and donations.
The Foundations mission is to invest in programs and community
organizations that empower and provide opportunities for underserved
children and families. Since joining the Nuggets in 2003, Melo has
been an active member of the Colorado community. Among his many
activities include purchasing tickets to Nuggets home games
for less fortunate families and hosting an annual holiday event
entitled A Very Melo Christmas in which he provides
presents and a day of activities for disadvantaged children.
www.CarmeloCares.org
Burton Snowboarding CHILL Program
Starting this week, six hand-picked Excelsior girls will be hitting
the slopes at Colorado's Echo Mountain every Thursday for six weeks.
Thanks to Chill, Burton's nonprofit learn-to-ride program for at-risk
youth, the girls will learn the ins and outs of snowboarding, while
also learning important life lessons.
For the past five years, Burton has worked with Excelsior, and
other area youth centers to take more than 500 at-risk youth from
Denver to the slopes, providing them with everything they need to
ride: lift tickets, lessons, transportation and head-to-toe gear.
This will be Carolina's second year with Chill. A native of California,
Carolina came to Excelsior two years ago to treat the symptoms from
living in a stressful home situation. As a return Chill participant,
Carolina is now asked to be a peer leader, helping with instruction
and leading by example.
"As many Coloradans know, snowboarding is fun for the kids,
but it takes plenty of hard work to learn," said Joan Gabrielson,
executive director of Excelsior Youth Center. "It is so wonderful
how Chill can relate snowboarding instruction to some of life's
most important lessons for our girls, like patience and responsibility."
Last year, Carolina described her trips to the mountains as "amazing."
Every Chill day, Carolina experienced frustration, fear, exhaustion
and joy. She also started to see changes in herself.
"Chill helped me believe in myself," Carolina said. "It
also helped me to trust myself more. I'm starting to trust my judgment
of right and wrong, something I just couldn't do before."
Five other Excelsior girls will join Carolina on her journey back
to the mountains this season. For many, this will be their first
trip to the high country and/or their first true outdoor experience.
"We try to give these kids a new experience, helping open
their eyes to all the opportunities life has to offer," said
Chill coordinator Lauren DiGeronimo. "Life is so much more
than the your neighborhood in the city."
This winter alone, Chill will work with over 2,200 youth across
the globe. For more information about Chill, visit www.chill.org.
Len Brass: Volunteer Extraordinaire

Volunteer Len Brass has collected more than 100
poems of hope, pain, worry, loneliness and joy from the young women
at Excelsior. With Brass' encouragement, the Excelsior girls have
learned that their feelings, courage and hope can touch others.
This collection of poems has become a true gift to Brass because
they continue to touch his heart daily.
For the past three years, Brass has visited Excelsior weekly to
tell stories and encourage discussion around issues of concern to
troubled young women. Through Brass' participation of Rotary International,
he has also become an ambassador for Excelsior to the community.
"In many ways, I've become a voice for Excelsior and a strong
advocate for those who work so hard to touch young hearts,"
Brass said.
Brass has spent most of his life working with young people. He
was a teacher for 13 years, a principal for 13 years, and a college
supervisor and professor for 7 years. He is also a father to five
children and a grandfather to four children.
Now retired, Brass is a professional storyteller, an author to
a book dealing with raising young children and serves as a Rotary
Assistant Governor in Area 13. A longtime member of Rotary International,
he is now responsible to the Governor for three clubs and is able
to share the message of Excelsior to his community.
His Rotary Club of Smoky Hill has had lunch at Excelsior and has
participated in the financial program at The University of Phoenix
with the girls. The club also purchased $500 in kitchen supplies
to the culinary program and this year his Youth Leadership Campers
will visit and donate toiletries to the girls.
"I'm a proud Rotarian and believe in service above self,"
Brass said. "I thoroughly enjoy life and want to give something
back."
By advocating for Excelsior in the Rotary community, many Rotary
Clubs have also become involved. In September, the Englewood Rotary
Club enjoyed a lunch and a visit with the Excelsior girls and hopes
to adopt Centennial Cottage. The Commerce City Rotary Club donated
$620 toward a new campus wide wellness program and is considering
more ways to become involved.
Over the years, Brass has also donated many items and money to
assist in Excelsior's work. He has attended numerous activities
and fundraisers and his wife and friends have even made hand-sewn
sweatpants for the Centennial girls.
Through his work, Brass has become known as Excelsior's Ambassador
Extraordinaire. Last year, he was the guest speaker at the volunteer
recognition celebration and his work continues to touch the hearts
of many.
Wellness Project Gets Kickin'
"I'm down 93 pounds thanks to everyone at
Excelsior who helped me. THANK YOU!"
Heavy all her young life, 17-year-old Melissa arrived at Excelsior
Youth Center nearly 200 pounds overweight. Angry, scared, hurtful,
lonely and depressed, she lashed out at anyone who tried to help
her. Obesity and inactivity were not WHY she came to Excelsior but
they were symptoms of deeper problems she needed to address.
"Now I've lost 93 pounds
maybe more since some of it
is now muscle," proudly says Melissa. She and Marty, her therapist
who is also a certified personal trainer, enthusiastically dealt
with Melissa's eating and exercise habits as a way for her to be
in control of her own behaviors. She lost 13 pounds in the first
two weeks at Excelsior.
"Besides having more energy, I have improved
social skills,," says Melissa. "And the daily
morning exercise program helps me focus better all day long."
Melissa will tell you it's not easy and she continues
as she struggles to make friends.
"But I act more mature now and it has allowed me to get to
know other people. The program is GREAT!"
Her painful journey includes addiction to medication for back pain
(due to extra weight) and lots of loss in her life, including deaths
of close relatives (heart attacks at early age). Most of her family
members also deal with obesity. "Now I've inspired my Mom to
attend Overeaters Anonymous. She's really proud of my success and
she's working hard, too," says Melissa.
Let us increase physical wellness, improve nutritional healthy
eating and offer enticing exercise opportunities for all the girls
at Excelsior Youth Center. What do you say???
Excelsior is implementing a campus-wide wellness initiative estimated
to cost nearly $100,000. Childhood obesity, an alarmingly increasing
phenomenon, is a major factor in a host of chronic, and costly,
conditions from diabetes to heart disease to mental health issues
(depression, suicide). Excelsior is developing strategies to help
promote weight loss and increase physical activity to significantly
lower risk factors for its students. Let's get our girls moving!
$8,000 will purchase fitness equipment- elliptical, treadmill,
mats & weights
By emphasizing exercise, sports and nutrition to our girls, they
are reaping the rewards of an active, healthy lifestyle. In addition
to the fun, team-building benefits, physical activity aids in increased
imagination and creativity, increased discovery and reasoning skills,
thought development and improved problem solving.
$3,200 will provide a sound system, wall mounted tv's for physical
fitness videos, dvd's, pamphlets, menu planning materials
In these activities our girls are challenging their bodies, while
working through their emotions. Additionally, the physical benefits
of exercise positively impact major health risk factors. Physical
activity has been shown to decrease the risk of smoking, illicit
drug use, sexual risk taking, depression and suicide factors that
already threaten this unique population.
$1,500 will purchase 3 Wii Fitness machines to keep kids motivated
and moving!
"It gives me motivation to continue to work on losing weight
and exercising. It's great!
I really enjoy the praise from the staff because I exercise,,"
says Melissa.
"Besides having more energy, I have improved
social skills,," Melissa says
$45 will outfit one girl with appropriate athletic clothing
& exercise shoes
"The girls are truly motivated and working on these wellness
concepts. A side effect has been the renewed camaraderie that's
developed. Exercising and menu planning/eating together is a safe
way to develop team work," says Marty. "And the girls
are sleeping better and they are taking fewer medically prescribed
drugs. We're VERY proud of their success."
Littleton
Independent features Steppin' Up 2008
Wine
Walk at The Landmark

RBC Wealth
Management supports our cosmetology girls as they shoot for their
dreams. Thanks for the $2,500 to enhance our program!

Above: Mike Bristow, Kathy Graveley, Carena Reber,
Fred Jauch and the boys hockey league that shot goals to make Excelsior's
cosmetology program money! Thanks RBC Wealth Management for your
continued support!
Live Auction Benefits Aftercare Program

Photo caption: Carena Reber and Kathy Graveley, Excelsior's Development
Department, peruse the antique Irish Cupboard at the live auction.
Thanks to the generosity of Susan and David Kreisman
of Chicago, Excelsior's Aftercare Program is benefiting from the
proceeds of a live auction of furniture, antiques and accessories.
Held recently on the Excelsior campus, the auction generated nearly
$10,000 for our emancipating teen program. The Kreisman's sold their
Cordillera (Vail) vacation home and donated many valuable items
to Excelsior. Thank you, Susan and David! It is these generous donations
that keep the important Aftercare Program alive at Excelsior. Click
here to donate to the program.
Excelsior's Aftercare Program seeks to advance the
status of emancipating young women in Colorado. The goals for these
women are to increase their access to affordable housing, improve
their ability to attain self-sufficiency, and obtain medical care
and higher paying jobs with career mobility. Equally important is
empowering the girls with the knowledge of how to avoid recreating
their past history and abusive partners. We want to keep the girls
invested in their own futures.
The Aftercare services will follow discharged metro-Denver
students to prevent future homelessness- provide education for financial
literacy, address continued counseling needs, provide referrals
for job opportunities, teach life skills and assist with gaining
access to health care. Financial contributions to Excelsior's Aftercare
Program are QUITE AN INVESTMENT! Donations are welcome.

Grab
your swim suit & towel and come help us celebrate
Excelsiors
New Teen Center & Swimming Pool
Friday,
August 22, 2008
5-7
p.m.
Barbecue
dinner, tours & entertainment
Program
to honor all of you who made it happen begins at 6:30 p.m.
We
will unveil plaques and imprinted bricks!

Reservations
are Required by calling Carena Reber @ 303-693-1550x331
by August 15th.
15001
E. Oxford Ave., Aurora CO 80014 www.excelsioryc.org
Outfitting 180 girls with one-piece or tankini swim suits is challenging
for Excelsior. Donations are welcome to assist in this endeavor.
We anticipate each suit will cost $25 per girl (or more). Additionally,
we're hoping to supply board shorts and t-shirts as cover ups at
$25 per girl. Pool toys, kick boards, goggles and other aquatic
items are also needed. Credit card donations are accepted on-line
or by calling Kathy 303-693-1550x226. Thank you!
EVERYBODY
INTO THE POOL!
Excelsior's long awaited swimming pool and teen center are now OPEN!
Many thanks to everyone who made it possible.
Kathy Graveley's first swim! Staff and kids are
enjoying Excelsior's new swimming hole.
Bill
Gregory, Executive Director Emeritus, officially opens Excelsior's
new Swimming Pool and Teen Center on July 3, 2008. Assisting him
is EYC's Associate Director and Building Project Manager, Arnie
Goldstein.
 
Teen Center Progress as of July 7, 2008.
What began as the dream of our former
Executive Director, Bill Gregory, comes to fruition 35 years later.
Mr. Bill was always a strong advocate for a campus swimming pool.
We owe a debt of gratitude to:
Ware Malcomb -Leading Design
for Commercial Real Estate. The folks at Ware Malcomb (led by Jim
Williams) donated their architectural talents. They designed the
actual building and pool.
Design Workshop - Making the Places that Bring People Together
With Land. Of course, no project is complete without landscaping.
Matt Landis and the team at Design Workshop are developing a plan
to enhance the surroundings of the Recreation Center with beautiful
trees and greenery.
Saddleback Design - Luke Waugh is lending interior design
services for the Teen Center and soliciting vendors to donate flooring,
counter tops, cabinets and tiling.
Thank you!
Kudos to the EYC Teen Center Committee:
Arnie Goldstein, Vicki Sicard, Sheila Stanley, Elaine Atwater, Mike
Walters, Brynn Robles and Vivian Zlobec.
Design Workshop Foundation Donates
Landscape Architecture Services for Excelsior Youth Center

Aurora, CO The Design Workshop Foundation
has been busy facilitating donations and donating landscape architecture
and installation services for the campus garden design of the Excelsior
Youth Center in Aurora, CO. Design Workshop Foundation volunteers,
with the help of many generous donors, have organized over $45,000
in donations of trees, shrubs, perennials, irrigation, benches,
design services and manpower. The first round of landscaping was
installed June 27-28, with over 30 Design Workshop employees and
Excelsior Youth Center volunteers donating their time. The second
and final installation will take place on August 16, with a grand
opening ribbon cutting ceremony taking place on August 22.
The Foundation extends their greatest appreciation
to the following material and service donors: Hydrosystems, GreenPrint
Denver, City and County of Denver Parks and Recreation, Landscape
Forms, Native Trees Service, Peak n Prairie Landscape, Box
Elder Creek, City of Aurora Parks and Open Space Department/Urban
Forestry, OTooles Garden Center, Gulley Greenhouse and Mrs.
Jenny McCoy. Project donations are still being accepted, details
can be found at http://www.designworkshop.com/DWFoundation.aspx.
Design Workshop president, Rebecca Zimmermann comments, "the
benefit resulting from the new campus gardens and teen center will
be priceless. Helping to provide a beautiful environment for the
girls who work so hard to turn their lives around and the staff's
dedication to that outcome is a real honor for us."
Excelsior Youth Center is a residential treatment
center and facility serving girls ages 11-18 with emotional and
behavior difficulties. Excelsior is home to about 180 girls who
participate in a structured treatment and living program while receiving
a certified education at Excelsiors middle or high school.
If you'd like to help the Design Workshop Foundation
continue their efforts to provide services to groups like Excelsior
please visit our website: http://www.designworkshop.com/DWFoundation.aspx.
and make a tax-deductible contribution online.
Founded in 1969, Design Workshop is an international
landscape architecture, land planning, urban design and strategic
services firm with seven offices in the U.S. and work spanning the
globe. The firm has been recognized through the years with over
145 prestigious awards for their work in new communities, urban
centers, resorts, public parks, golf courses and residences. The
firms philosophy challenges staff and their clients to equally
merge artistic vision, environmental sensitivity, community values
and sound economics to create unique places that stand the test
of time. They refer to this approach as DW Legacy Design®. For
more information, please visit www.designworkshop.com.
Design
Workshop Landscape Project Planting Days

Left picture: Five fabulous members of Design
Workshop. Becky (President of the Firm), Scott, Tina, Amie and Robin
Right picture: ZhenZhou (design workshop),
Ed (volunteer) and Brad (volunteer)

Left Picture: Scott (Design Workshop), Megann
(student) Joan (Executive Director), Amie (Design Workshop)
Right Picture: Scott (Design Workshop),.. (Volunteer), .Marisa
(EYC Volunteer Coordinator), Vicki (EYC Recreation Director)
Leave a Green
Legacy
Leave a permanent legacy to Excelsior's
new Teen Center and Swimming Pool by purchasing a GREEN SPACE in
the accompanying gardens. Plaques engraved with your name and message
will be installed to commemorate your lasting gift.
Specific sites for a naming opportunity (Engraved plaque with your
name and message) with a tax deductible gift of $2,000 include:
Healing Spiritual Garden-
Xeric Planting Area-
Memorial Space-
Event Gathering Space-
Therapy Garden-
Seating Area adjacent to the Tree Lined Path
Trees: A very special Tree Lined Path is slated to allow for quiet,
contemplative strolls for the girls and their therapists through
a grove of 18 trees just behind the building. You may purchase an
engraved plaque for one of these trees for a tax deductible gift
of $500.
Engraved plaques for smaller trees throughout the landscaping plan
can be purchased for $250 each.
The design plan for the contemplative vegetative area surrounding
the Teen Center and Swimming Pool was donated by the landscape architects
at Design Workshop. The plan took three months of dreaming, thinking,
creating by a team of students, teachers and staff members working
along side the Design Workshop staff. They said they intend to help
us create more landscaping plans for the remainder of Excelsior's
expansive campus! Heartfelt thanks to everyone at Design Workshop
for pulling together a sensational plan!

Denver Post Article
on Pool Party
Horses and kids
troubled
kids
The Kingery Family
Michael Tempel, Dr. Lauren Kingery-Tempel, Morgan
Tempel, Bill Kingery and Carol Kingery
Carole Adelstein attended our open house and then
rode "Moose" just like our equine girls!
Story after story supports the success of horse therapy in helping
troubled teens move toward appropriate social behaviors. Here at
Excelsior Youth Center, weve got hundreds of anecdotes supporting
our tremendously effective equine therapy program.
Excelsior re-named its program the Kingery Equine Therapy Program,
in honor of long-time Board member, Bill Kingery. There is
something magical about the connection between girls and horses,
says Bill. I hope equine therapy will always be available
to help the girls become happy and productive citizens.
After retiring from the cable television industry and buying a
ranch as a real estate investment, Bill began riding trails with
his daughter, Laurie. From there his interest grew into breeding
and then racing (for 15 years he raced Paints and Quarter Horses
successfully all over the southwest). It convinced me that
working with horses was therapeutic because patience was never my
strong suit but I got a whole lot better when I started working
with horses.
With Bills vision, encouragement and enthusiasm, EYCs
equine therapy program has thrived since he and others first started
it 13 years ago. Today 100 young girls participate in the wildly
popular 10-week sessions conducted on near-by horse ranches at an
annual cost of $20,000. Fees for service that cover most of the
girls needs do not include equine therapy. But Excelsior values
the program so much that it continues to provide the therapeutic
program at $200 for each girl who participates.
The Kingery Equine Therapy Program is used to achieve physical,
psychological and communication skills and it is educational, recreational
and therapeutic. The horses are a very good tool for reflection,
explains an Equine trainer. Ive seen these girls grow
personally. They learn so much about team work, respect, communication
and trust.
One girl reflects, my experience at equine therapy was not
great at first. I was scared and it brought up many of my past issues.
As the trainer continued to work with me, I started feeling good
and I started trusting my horse who helped me by having patience
and feeling my fear. She made me feel wanted. The trainers also
taught me that giving up is the worst thing that I can do, but for
most of my life thats all I could do. My horse gave me confidence.
"Horses were something that I had only seen on TV so when
I had to come face to face with one, I was so terrified. I couldnt
believe how big they were in person. If it were not for Equine therapy
I would still have a fear of horses. I ride by myself now!
Im so comfortable with the horses now, she continues.
There are many girls who are scared like I was. I encourage
them. Equine has helped me to communicate and be comfortable around
others, which was a big step for me. Its not just about the
horses.
See how important this program is for our troubled girls? Thank
you for helping us enhance appropriate social behaviors for our
troubled girls by funding our therapeutic riding program.
UPS Celebrates
Melody Horton:
In memory of Melody
Horton, former Foundation Board member and loyal community volunteer
serving the girls in Excelsiors Phoenix Cottage, the UPS Foundation
awarded Excelsior Youth Center a $12,500 grant in July 2008. A former
UPS employee, Melody died in February of this year and she is greatly
missed.
Weekly, she taught money management
classes, resume writing and conducted mock job interviews for the
girls living in Phoenix Cottage. With these enhanced job skills
tools, these girls can emancipate to self-sufficiency. The UPS grant
funds will continue this effort. A team of UPS employees stayed
for several more hours of community service to assist with the re-organization
of Excelsiors business office. Thank you, UPS!
Left picture: Check presentation ceremony to celebrate Melody Horton.
Joan Gabrielson, Executive Director; Liz Hesting, UPS representative;
Heather Hurd Johnson, Phoenix Cottage Treatment & Team Coordinator
and Jodi Mashburn,UPS representative.
Right picture: David, Mary, Kristin, Liz, Marisa

Left picture: David and Kristin; Right picture: Kristin, Maria,
Liz, Jodi and Mary
Former Student Revisits Excelsior
Youth Center For An Inspirational Graduation Message
She comes bearing a message of hope to girls who wrongly believe
they are hopeless. Karen Oschin will return to Excelsior Youth Center
for graduation this Friday at 1:30 with a message that she has dreamt
of delivering since she left Excelsior more than 20 years ago.
The girl who came to Excelsior is very different than the woman
who left. Karen came to Excelsior as a teen with a heavy heart and
low self-esteem. She had been caught in an undertow of abusive relationships
leaving her with a rebellious attitude and little hope of a bright
future. She describes herself as a wild teen with deep pain, and
no focus.
The counselors and teachers at Excelsior helped her see otherwise.
Karen remembers hearing for the first time, "I love you just
the way you are" from her counselors, Laura Bahl and Becky
Davis. At Excelsior she discovered a hidden talent for writing in
a creative writing class. After struggling with herself and growing
immensely Karen successfully graduated from Excelsior with a better
understanding of her abilities, potential and self-worth.
Now, she is a successful professional actress in Los Angeles, with
a list of accomplishments including appearances on The West Wing,
The George Lopez Show, and Deadwood, as well as several theatrical
productions and commercials. After leaving Excelsior she became
serious about acting and made a commitment to personal and professional
success. This attitude has allowed her to watch her dreams come
true.
"Some people say acting is an all too popular profession with
a small success rate but it's my passion and I find a challenge
in someone telling me I can't do something" Karen says.
On Friday, Karen will speak to the Excelsior girls graduating about
her struggles and triumphs. She hopes to instill motivation to keep
them moving forward as they leave Excelsior Youth Center and continue
on their path to self-discovery and accomplishment. Four girls have
completed the program and will graduate on Friday at 1:30 pm at
Excelsior.

Ron Bard (Chaplin), Karen Oschin (Alumni), Jann
Clevenger (School Principal),
and Joan Gabrielson (Executive Director)

Melina (graduate and now alumni) and Carena (Development
Assistant)
A Voluntary 'Splash' for Excelsior
Cathy Watson, Super-Donor-Shopper, scoured Denver
stores in search of 100 bathing suits, shorts and flip flops for
Excelsior's soon-to-be-swimmers-in-their-new-pool! Thanks to Cathy
for her thoughtful and generous contribution!
Cathy Watson displays new swim items.
Making a 'Racquet' for Excelsior!
 
Thanks to Tennis Plus for coordinating a used tennis
racquet drive for Excelsior's physical education classes. Mike and
Patti Huddleston are collecting used racquets and slightly used
tennis balls at their store at 537 W. Highlands Ranch Parkway, just
west of South Broadway. Mike has offered to re-string racquets that
need it! Thanks Patti and Mike! Donors will receive tax deductions
for their donations. See www.tennisplusonline.com
or call 303-470-7587.
Bully Proofing
Excelsior
Bullies beware!!! As the first
residential treatment center in the nation to institute a campus-wide
anti-bullying campaign, Excelsior Youth Center is launching the
Olweus Bully Prevention Program. Researchers from Colorado State
University are eagerly conducting an outcome study to evaluate the
effectiveness of this bully prevention program with troubled teenaged
girls.

"Our girls, though toughened by the streets, are looking for
structure and discipline in their lives just like all kids,"
explains Carol Beauchamp-Hunter, Excelsior's Associate Director
and Director of Treatment. "I am very confident and hopeful
the Olweus program will work with our difficult kids because everyone
has an active role including the kids. We've trained student leaders
who will help us introduce the strategies to the other girls. The
more the girls are actively involved, the better our success."
Besides student involvement, another key to its success, according
to Beauchamp-Hunter, is the consistency of messages from all staff
members. Every employee at Excelsior is expected to confront bullying
when observed and not only address the bully, but particularly let
the person being bullied know it's not acceptable to be treated
that way. "That's a crucial message for the victimized person,"
she says.
"Since Excelsior is always striving to provide a healthier,
safer environment and peer culture, we were very excited when we
discovered the Olweus program. We expect to reduce the opportunities
for bullying and improve peer relationships, classroom behaviors
and living conditions."
In addition to the kick-off with fun activities this week where
each girl receives a hand painted anti-bullying t-shirt and other
special events, the girls will continue to receive weekly school
meetings and weekly groups in the cottages where they reside. More
than 300 Excelsior employees have completed the 4-hour Olweus training
sessions and this topic is now part of the on-going new staff orientation
sessions. A committee of 10 staff members meets monthly to review
progress. Partial funding for this program has come from Colorado's
Tony Grampsas Youth Services Program to reduce teen violence. Continued
community support will ensure its longevity.
Each girl completes initial questionnaires of their bullying attitudes
and then a post survey will be conducted later to measure behavior
changes. Kathy Rigsby and Jan Evenstadt of Colorado State University
in conjunction with Dr. Marlene Snyder of Clemson University are
conducting the outcome study of its effectiveness in an all girls
residential setting. The Olweus program, developed over the past
30 years, has been implemented worldwide with good results in public
schools.
"I remain hopeful since research has shown if you reduce aggression
and anti-social behaviors, it will also reduce substance abuse,"
concludes Beauchamp-Hunter.
"The repeat survey is generally done after the program has
been in place for a year. I would wait at least nine months before
doing it again, as it does take time for the momentum to get going.
I rather doubt that you will see any great changes for at least
4-5 months. We can certainly keep track of what is going on and
then make the judgment as to when to survey again." Kathy Rigsby
Side bar: Signs posted around campus:
We will not bully others
We will try to help students who are bullied.
We will make it a point to include students who are easily left
out.
When we know somebody is being bullied, we will tell any staff member.
CONGRATULATIONS
to Jim Winter and Centennial Cottage for receiving awards from
CAFCA for outstanding achievement this year. Jim, Program Coordinator
at Excelsior for nearly 35 years received the prestigious Individual
Leadership Award. Centennial Cottage was named the outstanding Treatment
Team this year from CAFCA, Colorado Association of Family and Children's
Agencies. Way to go, guys!
left photo: Centennial Cottage Staff: left to right back: Sarah
Rhodes, Amy Smith, Dicia Kemp, Carl Minard, Erin Shaw, Jim Uhernik.
Front- Dan Flannigan.
right two: Jim Winter and Joan Gabrielson
EVERYONE IS NOW IN THE POOL!
After more than 35 years, girls at
Excelsior Youth Center are swimming in their own backyard pool.
The official Pool Opening Celebration will be held Wednesday August
27th, but for now the girls are swimming!
"The pool will open every day with structured
activities and free time, too," explains Josh Martin, Aquatics
Coordinator. "With two life guards on duty all the time, we
will have swim lessons for all levels, water games and aquatic aerobic
exercises throughout the week. The girls will demonstrate their
swimming ability and personal safety requirements in a test prior
to using the pool. Each Cottage will also have scheduled times to
visit the pool. I'm very excited to launch this inaugural program."

Outfitting 180 girls with one-piece or tankini
swim suits is challenging for Excelsior. Donations are welcome to
assist in this endeavor. We anticipate each suit will cost $25 per
girl (or more). Additionally, we're hoping to supply board shorts
and t-shirts as cover ups at $25 per girl. Donations are accepted
on-line or by calling Kathy 303-693-1550x226.
The 50'x75'pool is a dream of former Executive Director,
Bill Gregory. "Gosh it's BIG," responds Gregory, now retired,
upon seeing the massive structure now built north of the residential
cottages on Excelsior's 33-acre campus. "It's certainly bigger
than I'd ever expected after dreaming about it all these years.
This is thrilling."
Due to tough backgrounds and substance abuse problems,
most Excelsior girls never had the opportunity to participate in
any type of regular physical activity, team sports or swimming.
Additionally, many girls arrive on Excelsior's campus with very
little knowledge of general wellness or healthy use of leisure time,
including the importance of regular exercise. Excelsior's summer
rec program and swimming pool will provide girls a new and fun way
to learn about wellness, and help them stay active. These activities
are vital to the success of Excelsior's overall program.
"When asked why she wanted to swim, one of
the Excelsior girls said: 'it makes me feel free
' We're delighted
to provide this additional recreational experience for the girls,"
said Josh.
"Kathy Buckley was not only
hilarious, but was a terrific role-model for young women with life's
barriers to hurdle."

"Speaking of Kathy Buckley,
I thought she was wonderful, especially with her comments at the
end of her performance. She fit into our theme of overcoming adversity
extremely well and her encouragement and support of the Excelsior
cause at the end seemed to be very heartfelt and genuine. This was
an unexpected bonus which was very much appreciated and underlined
what a good fit she was with the overall program."
"Kathy Buckley's comments about
the Center and the girls were very touching and the crowd was listening
carefully."
"Kathy Buckley gave an incredible
personal testimonial!"
"Kathy Buckley was exceptional.
People had fun and the laughter was great. Her serious message at
the end was a great wrap up to the evening."
"Kathy Buckley was great- funny
and heartwarming. Loved her!!!"
Last but certainly not least: Kathy
Buckley voluntarily spent 3 hours Friday afternoon prior to her
evening performance with a behaviorally difficult, hearing impaired
Excelsior client. Together, they chatted, laughed, explored, toured
and laughed some more. That's bonding!
Excelsior's New Uniforms
After 35 years, Excelsior Youth Center now expects
each student to wear a uniform during school hours. The matching
navy blue polo shirts and pants were purchased through the generosity
of the List Family Foundation. The girls may wear their own clothes
during evenings and weekends.

Excelsior students Brenna, Kaitlyn and Venessa
model the new school uniforms.
"The process of incorporating uniforms for school is a challenging
one with our clientele due to their mental health issues, rebelliousness
and anti-social behaviors. We know that this will be a strong improvement
for our program as it will address gang colors, girls who have fewer/less
stylish clothes, revealing/provocative outfits, 'sagging and bagging'
pants and graffiti/inappropriate phrases on clothing," says
Joan Gabrielson, Excelsior's Executive Director.
"The vast majority of students have embraced
the concept and accept wearing Excelsior's new school uniform,"
explains Jann Clevenger, Excelsior's School Principal. The teaching
staff is equally excited about the new uniforms, Clevenger said.
"It will increase instructional time in the classroom as it's
one less thing the teachers will have to confront the kids about.
The Student Government will willingly wear their new uniforms in
support of the idea."
Students from Student Government Class responses:
T: "I think it's a great idea because I won't
have to choose what to wear every morning. I'm worried that many
of the girls will fight the idea and they'll keep fighting until
they get tired of the consequences. But eventually they'll cooperate.
Also I think some girls will make the uniform UNIQUE in some inappropriate
ways. Get ready
"
D: "I had to wear them in elementary school
and they're not that bad. It's not like it's a jail uniform! I think
the girls can express themselves in other ways like through their
jewelry. It won't be too much trouble."
D: "I won't be as late each morning! I just
hope they're COMFORTABLE!"
C: "There will be less hassles in classrooms
from the teachers having to correct girls' clothing. And I think
it'll be good for many of the girls to follow directives."
T and D: "It gives us the opportunity to wear
uniforms like you have to wear for many jobs on the out side"
and "remember: you have to wear uniforms for most sports!"
"It'll take a while to get use to them but I think it'll be
fine."
Excelsior Goes GREEN
Early May 1st (just before the May Day snowstorm!)
Excelsior Youth Center's Centennial Cottage was the recipient of
TV Channel 9's GO GREEN IS EASY MAKE OVER. Gregg Moss telecast LIVE
for 5 segments starting at 5:40 a.m. through 7:40 a.m.
Surprises included the donation of a new energy efficient refrigerator
donated by Gregg Colson and Appliance World, Inc. and a garden compost
bin, tools and plants by Tagawa Gardens. Standard Renewable Energy
donated an energy audit for the cottage and an anonymous donor contributed
$500 to help implement some of their recommendations. Allied Waste
delivered a recycling bin and donated 6-months of free recycling
services to Excelsior.
Excelsior thanks Gregg Moss, Valentina Garcia, Rob Proctor and the
wonderful Channel 9 cameramen and crew for this wonderful opportunity.
Thanks to the Centennial Cottage staff, Sarah Rhoads, for submitting
Centennial's name to the contest and for 'greening' Excelsior!

Rob Proctor negotiates the new compost
bin with the girls.
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EYC girls are delighted to receive a
new energy efficient refrigerator from Gregg Colson, left,
as Gregg Moss makes the announcement.
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EXCELSIOR STEP
TEAM: SISTA' SOUL PRODUCTIONS
They chant "One pulse. One rhythm. One Team." Their feet
and hands make a unfied rhythm that sounds like drum beats. A group
of girls who are tyring to turn their lives around, pull together
to form an award-winning step team.
Stepping is a traditional activity that started in the African-American
community. Without any music, rhythms and beats are created with
steel toe boots and the clapping of hands in a 10-12 minute routine.
It is a recreational and competitive sport in schools and universities
across the country. It is judged on originality, difficulty, audience
appeal, uniformity and costumes.
The Excelsior step team began as a six-week pilot program and recreation
activity. It quickly blossomed into an award winning team of courageous
and committed young women, many of whom, had rarely ever expressed
themselves in a positive way. Lives filled with anger, sadness and
struggle began to feel renewed hope in their newly found abilities.
Four years later, the step team continues to provide an opportunity
for girls with heart, determination and a love of the art form,
to see themselves in a new light while they work to create a new
start.
Currently, the step team consists of several girls who come from
all over the United States and range in age from 14 to 18. Because
each girl's stay at Excelsior can vary, team members change frequently
but one thing remains constant, every girl joins the team to carry
on the legacy that has become so special at Excelsior. "One
pulse. One rhythm. One team."
Excelsior's Kathy Graveley Honored
By Aurora Chamber of Commerce
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Executive Director Joan
Gabrielson congratulates Kathy Graveley, Unsung Hero
Award Nominee.
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More than
300 people attending the Women Making A Difference breakfast
on March 3rd hosted by the Aurora Chamber of Commerce Women
in Business Committee heard about Excelsiors message because
Kathy Graveley was one of 3 community finalists for their unsung
hero award for her development work with Excelsior. Our
own Jeannie Davis was the chair of the successful breakfast.
The Gateway Rotary Club (thanks to Jeannie) purchased a table
and 12 Excelsior people, including 4 girls, attended to support
Kathy. I was humbled and honored to represent Excelsior
in our Aurora community, says Kathy. Many thanks
to Joan Gabrielson for her nomination.
The other finalist was Michelle Leslie for her work with the
Lupus Foundation of Colorado. Congratulations to the winner
of the Unsung Hero Award, Darla Stuart, for her work with intellectually
and developmentally disabled people through The Arc of Aurora.
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New William C. Gregory Scholarship
Established
In December, anonymous donors created a large endowment
from which the yearly interest earned will fund scholarships to
be awarded in Bill's name. The William C. Gregory Scholarship program
is expected to receive $10,000 per year from this endowment to be
awarded to Excelsior's girls, past or present. What a tremendous
way to honor Bill, who cared so deeply about our girls and their
futures.
Excelsior Names New Executive
Director
Joan Gabrielson has been named the new Executive Director of Excelsior
Youth Center. She succeeds Bill Gregory who will retire December
31st after serving Excelsior for 32 years.
"I appreciate the responsibility the Board has entrusted to
me and I will do everything I can to build on the tremendous program
Bill (Gregory) created and developed," says Gabrielson, a 32-year
Excelsior employee. "Bill's wisdom and leadership have been
the foundation of Excelsior's success. But it has also been because
of all of the talented and dedicated people here. I feel very fortunate
to work with all of you," she told a crowded room of Excelsior
staff members who jumped to a standing ovation following the announcement.
Gabrielson has served as Excelsior's Associate Director and Human
Resources Director. She received her BA from Colorado State University
and MBA from University of Colorado at Denver. She will assume her
new role September 1st "but we still have four and a half months
to learn from Bill."
"I will miss my relationships with the kids, staff and Boards.
However, there's a great relief in stepping away from the tremendous
responsibility of seeing to the welfare of these girls" says
Gregory. "I'm extremely optimistic of Excelsior's future with
the new leadership that will bring fresh ideas, energy and enthusiasm."
Gregory and his wife, Vonna, have been married for 47 years and
have five children and seven grandchildren. They will soon move
to a new home in Parker where "I want to enjoy country life,
see more of my family, learn to fly fish and travel," says
Gregory.
Charcie Russell, Board Chair, says "we are so fortunate to
have had Bill Gregory leading Excelsior's efforts for the past 32
years. His impact on our organization, staff and students is greatly
appreciated and literally beyond measure. With Joan Gabrielson's
capable leadership we will now launch forward, continuing the positive
direction that Bill established."
Excelsior Leadership Announcements
Congratulations to Arnie Goldstein and Carol Beauchamp-Hunter,
Excelsior Youth Center's new Associate Directors. Arnie and Carol
will be active in managing all aspects of Excelsior's daily operations
to provide for the highest quality of service for the girls. Arnie
will focus on the Center's financial concerns both internally and
externally. As Excelsior's CFO for the past 18 years, Arnie has
established Excelsior's solid accounting and financial management
practices. As the current President of the Colorado Association
of Family and Children's Agencies (CAFCA), Arnie is a leader in
advocating for children and service providers.
Carol will focus on programming for clients. She is
a leader on CAFCA's Training Committee, a committee she helped create.
Carol has a wealth of knowledge about families, social service systems,
COA, licensing regulations and treatment modalities, along with
a true passion for providing the best possible care for our clients.
Congratulations to Vivian Zlobec who will be Excelsior's Director
of Human Resources. Over her 22 years with Excelsior, Vivian has
gained a wealth of information about Excelsior in her many positions
with the organization. In the Human Resources Department, Vivian
has worked continuously to improve the benefits provided to staff
and the communication of those benefits. She is always eager to
take a leadership role in saying 'thank you' to staff members for
their hard work and dedication.
Excelsior's Bill Gregory Honored
Bill Gregory, Excelsior's Executive Director Emeritus
was recently honored with a Lifetime Achievement Award from the
Colorado Association of Family and Childrens Agencies, CAFCA.
Congratulations, Bill!"
SCHOLARSHIPS!
The Daniels Fund distributed $1.4 million in scholarships in June
to at-risk students who might not have been able to afford college.
The scholarships are given to students from alternative schools,
juvenile justice programs, GED recipients and from underserved schools
in Colorado.
Two Excelsior students will be chosen to receive two of these Daniels
Opportunity Scholarships in partnership with the Community College
of Aurora. The Excelsior candidates will receive full scholarships
as they study at CCA for their two-year Associates Degree.
"We should have our two worthy candidates by December,"
explained Joan Gabrielson, Excelsior's Associate Director. "We're
thrilled to partner with both the Daniels Fund and Community College
of Aurora as they are extrordinarily flexible in meeting the needs
of our non-traditional at-risk students. This is a wonderful opportunity
for our students. "
The Colorado Department of Human Services (CDHS), Division
of Youth Corrections has selected a new provider for the privately
operated secure treatment program for girls at the Betty K. Marler
Youth Services Center in southwest Denver. A partnership of two
private organizations; Rite of Passage Inc. and Excelsior Youth
Center, has been notified of the State's intent to award the bid
to operate this program.
"We are looking forward to working together with this partnership
to bring the Marler Center up to its full potential," said
CDHS Executive Director Marva Livingston Hammons.
This announcement follows the release of the request for proposals
in December 2004, and a nationally competitive process. The Divison
of Youth Corrections will enter into a new contract at the end of
an appeals period. The State releases new Requests for Proposals
for privately operated programs periodically to ensure that it contracts
effectively for these services.
The program and its 14 current residents will be temporarily moved
to the State-operated Marvin Foote Youth Services Center in Englewood
pending reopening of new operations at the Marler Corporation, and
the CDHS Division of Youth Corrections to maintain programming and
best use existing resources and staff during the transition period.
The Marler Center is scheduled to reopen under a new State contract
with Rite of Passage/Excelsior no later than July 1, 2005. The center,
named for former DYC Director Betty Marler, opened in July 2002
and has a capacity of 40 residents.
Connecting Hearts
and Hands for Excelsior Youth Center
Nearly 150 volunteers from the
Arapahoe Stake of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
celebrated Colorado Cares Day on Saturday, July 30, 2005 in a day
of service and volunteerism at Excelsior Youth Center. Joined by
Governor Bill Owens and his staff, volunteers of all ages and abilities
spent the day repairing walkways, landscaping, hanging ceiling tiles,
painting and decorating nearly every facet of Excelsior's 33-acre
campus.
Under this year's unifying theme
"Communities Working Together," the Colorado Cares initiative
encourages Coloradoans to make a difference in their communities
through service projects to deserving non-profit organizations across
the state. Steven Hess, a volunteer from the church says, "I
was told there were up to 150 people participating at one time or
another from ages 6 months to 70 plus years
it was a very pleasant
and meaningful experience for everyone." He goes on to describe
the satisfaction he feels in giving back: "Doing service like
that for what I have come to appreciate as a truly benevolent institution
is a gift to the giver that few can understand."
Joan Gabrielson, Associate Director
of Excelsior Youth Center, was touched by the community support.
"It meant a great deal to our girls to have all of these people
from the community, strangers even, work so hard. The girls loved
having their home spruced up and to know that these volunteers cared
about them and wanted to do something so generous," she says.
Carol Gianfrancisco and Arnie Goldstein coordinated
the effort with assistance from Mike Walters, Facilities Manager.
Taneshia Nettingham conducted tours and recruited lots of new volunteers
to help at Excelsior in the future.
TEEN CENTER: The Excelsior Youth Center Board and the Excelsior
Youth Foundation Board are pleased to announce plans to build an
exciting new addition to the Excelsior campus. In early 2007, we
will begin construction on a year-round Teen Center for recreational,
therapeutic and spiritual activities and an adjacent outdoor swimming
pool for the girls. Jim Williams and others from Ware Malcolm have
donated their architectural talents in designing the structures.
Building funds will come from fundraising activities and a gift
from the Excelsior Youth Foundation.
EXCELSIOR STEP TEAM: SISTA' SOUL PRODUCTIONS
They chant "One pulse. One rhythm. One Team." Their feet
and hands make a unfied rhythm that sounds like drum beats. A group
of girls who are tyring to turn their lives around, pull together
to form an award-winning step team.
Stepping is a traditional activity that started in the African-American
community. Without any music, rhythms and beats are created with
steel toe boots and the clapping of hands in a 10-12 minute routine.
It is a recreational and competitive sport in schools and universities
across the country. It is judged on originality, difficulty, audience
appeal, uniformity and costumes.
The Excelsior step team began as a six-week pilot program and recreation
activity. It quickly blossomed into an award winning team of courageous
and committed young women, many of whom, had rarely ever expressed
themselves in a positive way. Lives filled with anger, sadness and
struggle began to feel renewed hope in their newly found abilities.
Four years later, the step team continues to provide an opportunity
for girls with heart, determination and a love of the art form,
to see themselves in a new light while they work to create a new
start.
Currently, the step team consists of several girls who come from
all over the United States and range in age from 14 to 18. Because
each girl's stay at Excelsior can vary, team members change frequently
but one thing remains constant, every girl joins the team to carry
on the legacy that has become so special at Excelsior. "One
pulse. One rhythm. One team."
LEADERSHIP AURORA:
Leadership Aurora is a program designed to meet
the needs of the city of Aurora for promoting and fostering the
development of leadership in our community. The program has been
in existence since 1984 and it brings together diverse people to
learn from each other, creates an expectation of servant leadership,
produces a basic understanding of how people and groups function
and builds in real opportunties to teach knowledge and skills.
Excelsior Youth Center is very fortunate to
partner with the Leadership Aurora Class of 2007. The goal of this
project is to refurbish Excelsior's auditorium and multi purpose
room. These areas are in some need of updates and repairs to make
them into places the girls can be proud of! Leadership Aurora is
looking to raise $35,000 to complete this project for Excelsior.
What is the scope of this project?
- Upgrade Lighting System
- Upgrade Sound System
- Refurbish Operable Partition
- Refinish Stage Floor
- Replace Stage Curtain
- Replace Seating as Needed
- Refurbishing Multi-Purpose Room
On April 15, 2005 Excelsior Youth Center hosted
a Career Fair on its campus featuring approximately twenty-five
exhibitors from local community colleges, universities, and trade
and vocational schools. Representatives from participating organizations
will be available to answer questions and provide valuable information.
This year Excelsior is incorporating a hair and fashion show into
the event, as well as a culinary arts exhibition and women's advocate
speaker. Last year's Career Fair was a great success and we expect
this year's to be even better!
The National Association of Blacks in Criminal Justice honored
Taneshia Nettingham with its "Outstanding Service Award"
for her work with the Excelsior Youth Center Step Team at it's annual
scholarship fund raiser on Saturday, February 5, 2005. The EYC Step
Team also presented a brief performance at the event. Congratulations,
Taneshia, Excelsior's Special Events Coordinator.
For the past several years Maggiano's
Little Italy has generously hosted Thanksgiving dinner for
all of the girls who are at Excelsior on Thanksgiving Day. This
holiday can be a terribly difficult day for a child who is far from
home or who has limited familial connections. Maggiano's truly cares
about our girls and has done everything in their power to be sure
that Thanksgiving is a truly special day. The restauraunt staff
treat the kids with the same high level of professionalism and respect
as their regular customers.
To quote a girl from this year's dinner: "I have never been
to a place like this — it's the most beautiful room I have
ever seen." This year Maggiano's hosted all of the children
and staff on our campus as well as parents, volunteers and younger
children from a partner agency. Maggiano‚s has also organized
a Christmas gift program in the past which has generated literally
truckloads of gifts for the girls at Excelsior and hundreds of children
in placements throughout the metro area.
Thank you, Maggiano's! We sincerely appreciate all you do for kids
in need in our community.
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Rhonda and Tommy Vickers
Honorary Chair Persons
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EXCELSIOR YOUTH CENTER CELEBRATES
EXCELSIOR! EVER UPWARD
APRIL 16, 2004
WILDLIFE EXPERIENCE MUSEUM
Excelsior Youth Center announces Rhonda and Tommy Vickers will serve
as HonoraryChairs of Excelsior! Ever Upward, the fundraising gala
Friday, April 16, 2004 at the Wildlife Experience Museum.
The Vickers hosted the Patron Party at their Castle Pines home on
Friday, April 2nd for patron level guests to Ever Upward. Invitations
to the event that costs $150 per person are available by calling
Excelsior at 303-693-1550x226.
The hot air balloon theme represents the definition of excelsior
which is ‘ever upward” and the goal of improving and
empowering the lives of the troubled girls who reside at Excelsior.
Excelsior! Ever Upward features a welcome reception, silent and
live auctions with auctioneer, Gary Corbett, dinner and live entertainment
by Excelsior girls. Funds will benefit activities for the girls
residing at Excelsior. Reservations are required.
As a renowned sculptor, Rhonda Vickers says, “I was introduced
to Excelsior when I was commissioned to create the bust of Excelsior’s
Executive Director, Bill Gregory, to commemorate his 30 years of
service. Tommy and I learned a great deal about the program and
have become very supportive.”
Rhonda was born and raised in St. Louis and studied fine arts at
Wichita State University. She and Tommy were married 35 years ago
and have two grown children. Rhonda has volunteered teaching art
to children with Cerebral Palsy and worked with homeless women and
children at the Gathering Place and served as its Board Chair. In
1999 Rhonda began her full time bronze sculpting business.
Tommy, raised and educated in Wichita, KS, was in the securities
business for 25 years before moving his family to Denver in 1984.
While in Kansas he was involved in Catholic Charities, National
Jewish Hospital Board, the Institute of Logopedics Board and the
Crime Commission. “I’m a low key patron of charities
and I prefer organizations dedicated to children and their future,”
says Vickers.
Ever Upward co-chairmen, Molly Ross and Bill Lane, are joined
on the gala coordinating committee by: Anne Barrett, Deb Braun,
Gary Corbett, Maggie Eichenlaub, Joan Gabrielson, Judy Girardot,
Bill Graveley, Kathy Graveley, Bill Gregory, Lisa Houston, Hal Hultquist,
Dick Jones, Andrea Kellough, Carol Kingery, John Kivimaki, Abbie
Kozik, Jackie Lane, Taneshia Nettingham, Anne Prather, Matt Rivera,
Arlene Wayland and Vivian Zlobec.
Corporate sponsors of Ever Upward include Comcast, Denver Nuggets-
Kroenke Sports Enterprises, Wells Fargo Bank, Wagner Investments,
Inc., Allegiance Benefit Plan Management, U. S. Bank, Hillyard Floor
Care, Trugreen Land Care and Piper Jaffray.
For ticket information please call Excelsior, 303-693-1550 x 226.
Photo: Rhonda and Tommy Vickers, Honorary Chair Persons
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